if. Indoor Sidewalk Sale! a 0 i.,t 74: ALL WINTER fl MERCHANDISE 11 . . . t A . $Ay tS is ...A However, Rabbi Nevins warns parents against putting their chil- dren in the middle of a denomi- national stand-off. Conversely, children should remember the mitzvot of honoring both parents, regardless of their levels of ob- servance, he says. Judith and Martin Miller of West Bloomfield belong to Tem- ple Israel and Adat Shalom. The Millers say they prefer to look be- yond denominational lines. "We consider ourselves a very observant family that happens to belong to a Reform temple and a Conservative synagogue," Mrs. Miller says. Mrs. Miller deplores what she calls "Jewish separatism." Re- cently, she and her husband were sitting in temple when they over- heard Conservative visitors de- nounce the Reform worship service. On other occasions, the Millers have heard Conservative Jews refer to the Reform move- ment as "bargain basement Ju- daism." "I have a real problem with Jews who demean other Jews," Mrs. Miller says. "I grew up with people making fun of me because I belonged to Temple Israel." Mrs. Miller's parents were founding members of Temple Is rael. Her husband's parents were longtime members of Adat Shalom. "In our particular marriage, it has never made a difference," she says. When it came to rearing chil- dren, the Millers decided on a Re- form education at Temple Israel. They wanted their children's for- mal Jewish training to reflect their religious practices at home. For instance, the Millers drive on the Sabbath, but the Conser- vative movement restricts driving to trips back and forth from syn- agogue. "I didn't want to present my children with an ideal they can't live with," Mrs. Miller says. "I didn't want to present them with one thing (in school) and do an- other (at home)." All four Miller children at- tended Temple Israel religious school from their pre-kinder- garten years through high-school graduation. Today, they don't bog themselves down with questions of what's proper for this-or-that denomination, Mrs. Miller says. "They pick what's meaningful to them." El iS 50°7 5% .kA tS of ' ..,A 1r ..,?... -1 ., . 1, '‘ CALL 2 OFF v it t Are You A Single Jewish Mother? The Institute for Single Jewish Mothers for monthly programs including: Shabbat Dinners - Holiday Celebrations Social Events For more information. contact Ilene Hochbaum at (810) 354-1050. 0 ...A 4 •kp it lr... .‘rJ" 0 . Vi_ In Orchard Mall • 8554818 • Orchard Lake Rd. At Maple tez is_fr,,,,,A,A...t*".*,040)Akt t....efr k eAkeio -1.1.■:*-wve- olt**NN-Nr.\--4. - NIIN.--vve- vtv..--wwv--,.. - 41.N.-- vi. The Institute for Single Jewish Mothers is a program of Jewish Experiences for Families, working to empower, educate and integrate single Jewish mothers and their families into the Jewish Community of Metropolitan Detroit. SPEECH & LANGUAGE DISORDERS EARLY INTERVENTION DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE 1W: Look for these signs or symptoms ✓ lack of cooing/babbling as an infant, few word attempts by 18 months ✓ lack of two-word combinations by at least 21/2 years ✓ echoing back words without comprehension ✓ difficulty with social language or relationships ✓ doesn't pay attention to spoken language (may appear to have hearing loss) but highly visually- oriented (high interest in TV, videos, letters, numbers) ✓ difficulty with grammatical skills by age 3 unintelligible speech ✓ I Institute for Single Jevirsh Mothers The Institute for Single Jewish Mothers is a recipient of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit's Max M. Fisher Community Foundation. patagonia Call us at 737-3430 for further information and to schedule a consultation. Kaufman Children's Center for Speech & Language Disorders, Inc. 5793 W. Maple, Ste. 150 • West Bloomfield 810-737-3430 Specialists in treating preschool & early elementary aged children. Nancy Kaufman, Director TOGS 8. MILKCAPS NEW COLLECTIONS CONTAINERS SLAMMERS LATEST KIDS' CRAZE!!! Patagonia's alpine shells, insulating layers, Capilene® Underwear and accessories will take on the ski slopes, a frosty skating pond or a school-bus stop visited by C ai while keephit - warm Best Selection — -CAPS —SLAMMERS —LAVA TUBES — ACCESSORIES Call to shop (810) 738-5948 VISIT US MONDAYS AT THE CARD SHOW CROSSWINDS MALL 3 - 7:30 P.M. Michigan's largest selection of Patagonia apparel. 4316 N. Woodward Ave * South of 14 Mile Road (810) 549-5070