Opinion Community Views Culture Should Reflect Return From A Troubled Land Where We Live Leaving Behind Many Questions MIRIAM KREININ SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS RABBI LEONARDO BITRAN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS he other morning I awoke ing out for after-work happy to the song "Hotel Califor- hours. nia" playing on Israel's Regarding men in suits, please army radio station, and in note: The only time I have ever my sleepy state I thought I was seen a man walking down the either dreaming or back in the street here in a suit was a man States. on the way to his wedding. Other Reality hit me as I realized commercials show youngsters how popular American music is dancing hip-hop and singing rap in Israel and that I had to be at songs in Hebrew. I've seen bill- work in an hour and three bus boards on the sides of buses that rides away. As I headed for the say in Hebrew: "Will Billy choose Allison or Amanda? Watch 'Mel- rose Place' Wednesday to find out." Most people, including me, enjoy all the Americana. But sometimes it's important to re- shower, the radio started blast- member your true culture and ing out the American national an- where you live. This was evident them. This was too much. Back at the recent peace signing be- in Michigan, the faraway place I tween Israel and Jordan in Is- come from, you only hear this rael's Arava desert. song at ball games. Israel's press said the ceremo- Once again, as I have many ny resembled a parade at Dis- times in the three years I've lived neyland. Souvenir hats were here, I wondered where I was — made and distributed, balloons Israel or the United States? This were released at the end and tiny country in the Middle East marching bands played. Of could be seen as an American course, all the hoopla did have haven in the midst of the Arab something to do with the fact that Third World. In fact, Israel often the president of the United States seems more American than was there. America. But looking deeper into the Staring up at the hole where a sev- en-story building once hummed with activity, on- lookers gazed horrified at hu- manity's latest act of violence to- ward itself. This time, the habitual ca- pacity for harm in our fellow hu- man beings took the lives of 100 people. One among them was Suzy Kreiman, the wife of Rab- bi Angel Kreiman; she had no idea that on this day, going to work and being Jewish would cost her life. The Jewish community of Ar- gentina has been a thriving ag- gregate of South American culture for decades. Strong and prosperous, Argentinean Jews have immersed well inside the surrounding culture, while maintaining a close link to their Jewish heritage. But in the year that marks the 100th anniver- sary of organized Jewish com- munal life, terrorism is driving a wedge between Argentina and its 250,000 Jews. On July 18, 300 kilos of ex- plosives were hidden in the Jew- ish Community Offices (A.M.I.A.) of Buenos Aires, Ar- gentina. The explosion killed ap- proximately 100 people. One of them was the wife of Rabbi An- gel Kreiman, Suzy. On my re- cent visit to Chile, I had the opportunity to speak personal- ly with Rabbi Kreiman about his loss and the devastation this act of terrorism has brought to the Jewish community. Here is the rabbi's story. "The last time I spoke to my wife was the morning before the bombing," said Rabbi Kreiman. "We go about our lives never ex- pecting the unthinkable to hap- pen: that our loved ones could be taken from us in an instant. When my secretary called me about the bombing, I prayed to God Suzy was not in the build- ing. I went to the site without our daughters, but a friend brought them anyway. Just in case Suzy had been inside, I de- cided this would not be the last memory they had of their moth- er. We left to search hospitals. "When Suzy's purse was found on Tuesday of that week, I began searching morgues. The 'recognizable' bodies were spread out on the floor. There were so many, they covered the entire Americana invades Israel. The hottest cars here are Pon- tiacs and Fords. And if you're looking for a real status symbol, drive a GMC truck. Children get out of school, dressed in Levis and Nike high-tops and head for Mc- Donald's, Burger King or Domi- no's Pizza before going home to feast their eyes on cable TV. When their parents get home, they fight over watching CNN or the latest episode of "Beverly Hills 90210". Even if you don't have cable, Israel's new priva- tized channel has legalized com- mercials. For a country of non-drinkers, never have I seen so many beer commercials tak- ing place in American-style bars, showing men dressed in suits go- ) Miriam Kreinin is a free-lance writer living in Israel. peace-making countries' situa- tions, it might have been better to keep the ceremony more low- key. Israel's recent bus bombing in Tel Aviv had a sobering effect on the country that made the public weary of peace at all. And Jordan's King Hussein, taking a leap ahead of the other Arab nations in a very delicate situation, might have preferred something quieter. But good old- fashioned Americana prevailed at the ceremony, and it does have a way of touching everyone's heart. I do think, however, that the next time I walk into a mall and am offered to take the Coke-Pepsi taste test, I will turn around and head for the closest falafel stand. ❑ Rabbi Bitran is lecuiPr of the Shaarey Zedek B'nai Israel Center in West Bloomfield. He recently returned from a trip to Chile, where he met with Rabbi Angel Kreiman. space. Suzy's body was finally found at the bombing site. I could only identify her from her personal articles. The most im- portant thing for me and my daughters was knowing Suzy did not suffer. After the funeral, my youngest daughter, Marcela, said, 'Let's go home, Dad, be- cause Mom is at home with us forever.' "The initial aftermath of the bombing brought the entire country together," the rabbi con- tinued. "We mourned as Argen- tineans. But as threats continued, the Jews emerged as the scapegoats for a terrified country with a history of anti- Semitism. Discontented voices made their concerns known. "They began insidiously; on radio and television," he said. "I noticed journalists distinguish- ing between the Jews who were killed and the innocent Argen- tineans. When a prominent tele- vision broadcaster criticized the role of the Israeli army in as- sisting with the cleanup and ter- rorism investigation, I knew attitudes had changed. Jews were no longer victims, they were a threat and Argentina was viewed as impotent in han- dling its own affairs. Our initial feelings of national solidarity had dissolved. Replacing it was fear and isolation. "Argentineans began speak- ing of Jewish-only settlements and wouldn't it be safer if 'they' were separated from the rest of society. A polite reference for `ghettoism.' Although my fami- ly has received enormous sup- port from our community, I have heard others say that having Jews in close proximity lowers property values. `The same day my wife's body was found, my daughter said, `Daddy, let's move to Israel.' During the shiva period, she changed her mind. Argentinean Jews have strong ties to Ar- gentina, the way American Jews identify with their country. My family and friends insist this was not just a Jewish attack, it was also an attack on Argenti- na. "I will stay in Argentina be- cause of my work, but more im- portant because I am a fourth-generation Argentinean. This is my home. We are truly accustomed to this country. The bombing not only took the lives of many innocent people, it also destroyed much of our relation- ship with non-Jewish Argenti- na. "Life will never be the same in this southern part of the world," Rabbi Kreiman said. "From now on history will be di- vided between life before and life after the bombing. Spiritually we remain strong. Religious in- stitutions are filled with people, but secular Jewish communities are empty. We are numb and immobilized by the pain, but we must respond; we must react; and we must remember. "In addition to Suzy's purse, workers also recovered her lit- tle Book of Psalms, reminding me of the way all Jews should live their lives — with strength and perseverance in what they do, without fear, with joy and carrying with them everywhere they go a little part ofJud ai sm." Rabbi Kreiman's words rang through my head as I flew back to Argentina from Chile. I could not help but remember the first time I crossed the Andes Moun- tains from Chile into Argentina; on my way to the Seminario Ra- binico Latinoamericano, the Latin American Conservative Rabbinical School. I was excit- ed to be part of a Jewish com- munity many times larger than my own. Forgetting there is "Let's go home, Dad, because Mom is home with us forever." power in numbers and that a terrorist group might perceive that power as threatening. In Chile, terrorism on Jews was not a problem. Jews were few in number and therefore less threatening. In Argentina, a quarter of a million Jews can wield enormous influence. This time as I entered Argentina, my anticipation was overwhelmed by suspicion and fear. I had re- alized that to be Jewish in a country that hates Jews means your nationality is stripped away. Hatred is not interested in where you came from or whether your country accepts you. It is only interested in whether you are a Jew. Nothing can justify the slaughter of innocent people, yet it is an inveterate occurrence in our society, and the travesty of that is so few realize it. I sat in the airport of Chile, that narrow and long country, whose houses are like little bal- conies hanging from the Andes Mountains looking at the blue of the Pacific, thinking how im- portant it is to share Rabbi Kreiman's story. Not because it will affect people, but because it talks about what our world is ca- pable of when ignorance clouds our thinking and only leaves room for fear and hate. ❑