GREAT GIFTS FOR GUYS simply tossing in sun-dried toma- toes into just about everything except chocolate cake. "I like robust tastes," she said, "like sun-dried tomatoes and co- riander." Her book reflects Ms. Nathan's interest in eating right — which means sitting down to a home- cooked meal and turning the TV off. "We should eat as a family, not on the run and not standing up," she said. She remembers helping her own mother cook (young Joan's job was putting the pies in the oven), then later preparing dish- es for foreign journalists while she worked for Jerusalem May- or Teddy Kollek, which is how she got started writing cookbooks. "Cooking is a kind of ritual of life," she said. "It's the whole process — mixing the batter then braiding the bread and setting the table. Besides, it's fun." Ms. Nathan, who also writes for Food Arts and Gourmet mag- azines, recently returned from a visit to Morocco, where "in every decent home you can find a 25- kilo sack of flour, which family members use to make bread that's baked in a communal oven. "And do you know what they asked me?"she said. 'Is it true that in America everything you eat comes prepared in boxes?" odger Kamenetz did not go to India looking for spiri- tuality. He went as a jour- nalist. What he experienced, though, was a kind of a spiritual journey that helped him look at his own life and religion. Mr. Kamenetz, a poet and pro- fessor of English at Louisiana State University, accompanied eight Jewish rabbis and scholars on a visit with the Dalai Lama. The Tibetan Buddhist leader had requested the meeting, with one of his main questions being how the Jewish community had sur- vived for so many years without an established homeland. (The Chinese Army occupied Tibet in 1950, and the Dalai Lama has lived in exile in Dharamsala, India, since 1959.) The visiting group comprised an unusual collection of Jewish leaders, from mystic Rabbi Zal- man Schachter-Shalomi to Or- thodox Rabbi Irving Greenberg. In addition to meetings with the Dalai Lama and other Buddhist monks, the group had prayer ses- sions and Torah study and "live- ly debates," Mr. Kamenetz said. Mr. Kamenetz, who writes of the experience in The Jew in the R Lotus: A Poet's Rediscovery of Jewish Identity in Buddhist In- dia, said he and the others stayed in a cottage where the Dalai Lama's mother had once lived. Made of stone, it was perched on a hillside "with monkeys and magpies all around." Discussions with the Bud- dhists most often focused on sur- vival, with each Jewish participant giving a different in- sight. Rabbi Greenberg told the Dalai Lama that since the destruction of the Temple, "the responsibili- ty for continuity has been given to every Jew." Each Jew, he said, is obligated to act and to remem- ber — the Land of Israel, histo- ry, tradition. "Now I feel I have the secret of Jewish survival," the Dalai Lama said. "It is always to remind." Rodger Kamenetr Mr. Kamenetz described the Dalai Lama as "an extraordinary presence," a man with "a quiet mind, of immense intelligence and concentration." He carefully chooses his words, referring to the Chinese only as "the so-called en- emy." In Buddhism, Mr. Kamenetz explained, "anger is a poison of the mind." Mr. Kamenetz, who also met up with longtime Dalai Lama supporter and actor Richard Gene ("he's shorter than I thought"), described himself as a secularist. He said he learned from the meetings that "there are many ways to be a Jew: family, culture, religion — there is no one an- swer." But he did return from the meetings with a commitment to "deepen my own sense of Jewish spiritual practice," he said. He hopes to incorporate into his own life the Tibetan understanding of religion as "a spiritual path." anan. Ashrawi insisted, ab- solutely insisted, that she did not want a book writ- ten on her life. "No," she firmly told journalist Barbara Victor. "I don't want it." She then proceeded to invited Ms. Victor into her home, to speak for 15 months on taped in- terviews and to hand over nu- merous family photos. Ms. Victor, author ofA Voice of Reason: Hanan Ashrawi and Peace in the Middle East, said she got the idea for a book after writ- ing an article in Femme ("the French version of Vanity Fair") about the Palestinian leader. From the outset, she said, Ms. Ashrawi "assumed that I was dumb. To her, I was a journalist and all journalists are there to be manipulated." Ms. Victor had for years cov- ered the Middle East, for U.S. News and World Report and oth- er publications. Finding sources to discuss Ms. Ashrawi was not difficult, she said. "I had interviews every night that lasted until 1 or 2 in the morning." Just about everyone, Is- raeli and Palestinian, had something to say about the former teacher (and yes, she did have a relationship with news anchor Peter Jennings, years ago when she was sin- gle and a student). They agree she is intelli- gent, well-spoken and am- bitious. At the same time, she is described as cold, a snob, and, as a Christian, a woman and part of a well-to- do family, something of an anomaly among the Pales- tinians. Ms. Ashrawi's rise to fame received a major boost when she appeared on "Nightline." Among her fans were former Sec- retary of State James Baker III, who saw her as an excellent spokesman to deliver the Pales- tinians' story to Americans. Singlehandedly, she changed the image of a Palestinian as "a terrorist wearing a kaffiah to an intellectual wearing a designer scarf," Ms. Victor said. Ms. Victor even credits Hanan Ashrawi with PLO Chairman Yassir Arafat receiving the No- bel Peace Prize. "She was the rea- son he got to the White House lawn," she said. These days, Ms. Ashrawi is writing a book and smoking. "She subsists on cigarettes and choco- lates," Ms. Victor said. "Her hus- band, who is a lovely man, does all the housework" Ms. Ashrawi's idea of cooking is "turning on the microwave." She's also "waiting for the dust to settle," in the new Palestinian entity, Ms. Victor said "I predict she'll be appointed minister of in- formation." "She has been very successful," she added. "She had a job to do and she did it. And in that way she was 100 percent effec- tive." El R. GRUMET MR. 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