Community Views Editor's Notebook When Educators Forget The Audience Is Listening Quick: Name 5 Great Accomplishments IRA WISE SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS PHIL JACOBS ED TOR A few years ago, my wife Audrey and I went to see a movie at a theater in Los Angeles. Af- ter the previews and the cartoon character telling us not to litter, the screen went black; a deep, low thrum began rum- bling from the rear of the theater. It quickly grew louder as the sound moved toward the front. Out of the blackness, dark blue letters — THX — filled the screen. Below them appeared "The Audience Is Listening" in the same eerie color. After a sec- ond fade to black, the thrumming ceased abruptly, and the film be- gan. It was a promotion for the new THX sound system which has been installed in some of the country's most high-tech the- aters. THX is cut- ting edge sound tech- nology, a prod- uct of George (Star Wars) Lucas' LucasArts Entertainment Company. It is now available at a few theaters in the metropolitan Detroit area. The ad campaign is designed to tell us that filmmakers used this technology because they are aware that we, the audience, are listening to and judging the prod- uct. Audrey often says that I see the world through schmaltz-col- ored glasses. It was natural then, for me to think about the THX ad in terms of Jewish education and everything we hope to accom- plish. Children everywhere will tell you that religious school is boring. Teachers in many places bemoan the so-called "fact" that students and their parents are at best apathetic to Jewish educa- tion. And parents in some places have been heard to say, "My kids are so over-programmed, I can't make them come to temple." I believe that part of the prob- lem is that we educators some- times forget that "The Audience Is Listening." When teachers fail Ira Wise is the educational director of Temple Emanu-El. to engage students and their fam- ilies in the acts of teaching and learning, those students decide that Jewish education is boring and irrelevant to their lives. When we are able to hold their attention by making Jewish ed- ucation exciting and help them apply Jewish learning to their lives, students' interests in being lifelong learners increases. When we are unable to capti- vate students, when we fail to hold their attention, they natu- rally turn to other, more challenging interests. As my father, Listening. Our children are very sophisticated and can handle so- phisticat,ed challenges. I believe that our religious schools are full of preadolescents who are not only computer literate, but are well-versed in the art of actually writing computer programs. Once a child has mastered a video game, he or she will discard it because it is no longer engag- ing. I believe we must make all of our Jewish educational pro- gramming more exciting and more challenging than it has ever been. We need to demand more of our students, their parents and of our teachers. Finally, we must empower parents in our synagogue communities to become even more than an audience; they should become partic-. ipants who make demands of educators. We must teach ourselves to de- mand more and different challenging educational experiences for us and our children. The Agency for Jew- ish Education has heard that message delivered in the report of the Giles Commis- sion; the Nirim pro- gram, developed in cooperation with the Jewish Educators Council, provides training of Jewish teachers on a scale no one institution could attempt. The Agency lis- tens to the needs of the schools and provides some of the high- est qual- ity faculty devel- opment available anywhere. And we are seeing a similar total qual- 44140,* ity approach throughout the who is a salesman, would say, Agency — the high school video "You have to remember who your project, which is both revolu- customers are." Exactly. tionary and on target, is but one There is not a congregation in sterling example. While nation- the United States that has not ex- al organizations are wondering perienced a marked decrease in who's killing the great bureaus religious school enrollment be- of Jewish education, Detroit has tween junior high and high transformed the dream by lis- school. When I was interviewing tening to the audience. for a job 31/2 years ago, many of If we continue to remember the congregations who were look- that The Audience Is Listening, ing to hire an educator were and if we remember that they are telling applicants, "We need to not a passive audience but full revitalize our high school pro- participants in the educational gram." That's only a small part process, as teachers of their chil- of the real solution, though. To dren, lay leaders and as lifelong retain students after bar mitzvah learners, we will not have to wor- and through high school gradu- ry about continuity. And as mem- ation, we must make certain that bers of the community who may their religious school experiences not be part of the leadership, if before bar mitzvah are stimulat- we want our grandchildren to be ing and "cool." Jewish, then we must get in- Remember: The Audience Is volved now. ❑ \ If you had to se- lect the five greatest accom- plishments of " your life up to this point, what would they be? Think about that. What are five achieve- ments you've filed away that you are proud of? What makes them great? Some of us would point to the birth of our children. For oth- ers, it's graduating from college; getting married; overcoming tragedy. What about the last- second shot at the buzzer that carried your team to victory? Or the time you successfully tuned your own car? The exam in that impossible course you took that you not only passed, but aced? What is a great accomplish- ment? What do we use to mea- sure these levels? For most of us, it's through the media. A su- permodel has great physical beauty. How many girls and young women do we know who stay quietly frustrated because they don't see themselves mea- suring up to the supermodel? How about the millionaire ath- letes of our times? Does a hit you might have made in a softball game measure up to greatness? Does being a strong, silent type make a man great? We spend too much time fawning over the stars, and not enough time giving ourselves or one another credit for what we call "small victories." Suggestion: let's get rid of the word "small" here. Great doesn't have to be judged by whether or not it's an action that happens on television or in the movies. Great doesn't have to be big, either. You find the time to donate blood. That's an act of great- ness. Put your pocket change from the end of the day into a pushke. Another act of great- ness. Your children do the same thing? Even greater. You make a pact with your- self to stop excessive alcohol drinking. You decide to stop hit- ting your kids, your wife. A champion in my book. You decide, no matter how difficult a task it is, to stop talk- ing about other people in a neg- ative way. The greatest. The lamp. Never told you the story of the hurricane lamp. It's true. It happened when I was 9. My mother (of blessed memory). One of her "greatest" accom- plishments was the money she put away to purchase an an- tique lamp. She worked hours of overtime as a secretary for the state. She spotted the lamp at an exclusive antique store, and she would not be satisfied until it was in her home. She loved this pink glass and gold light. It sat in a place of honor on a cherrywood drum table in our living room. One evening while watching a sports television show, I demonstrated my ability in the sport of bowling. With my pre- tend ball in hand, I eyed the pins. With total concentration, I got set for an anticipated strike. I anticipated all right. Be- lieve me, I struck as well. The imaginary crash of the pins in front of me was substituted by the crash of a circa 1920s lamp meeting a cold linoleum floor. Months later, after my re- lease from solitary, I had what for me was an affirmation of a great lesson still held close to my heart. There were two baseball tick- ets at risk this day. It was a Sunday morning. Since the lamp incident, my father (of blessed memory) found anoth- er antique lamp similar to the first. It went on the drum table. With a game to go to that af- ternoon, part of my teshuvah involved vacuuming the living room, dining room and hallway. We had an old canister vacuum with a long cord. (Please skip ahead at this point if you can't stand the blood and gore.) Try- ing hard to re-enter the world of mentshlecheit, I started vac- uuming. I was around the cor- ner, in the hallway, when the vacuum needed a small tug. The look on my mother's face as she held the broken lamp globe in her hands was unfor- gettable. To this day, I'm sure that table stuck out its leg. Getting back to the expres- sion. It wasn't anger this time. This time it was disappoint- ment, hurt. Forget the baseball tickets that would be given away for my misdeed. Forget the fact that the linoleum and the carpets were clean. This was a "great moment." I had let someone down. It took two bro- ken lamps, both symbolizing a tremendous sense of accom- plishment and enjoyment to my mother, for me to understand how hurting someone hurt me as well. This happened over 30 years ago. It's still one of the five greatest events that I can re- member. Lessons learned are great events in our lives. Now, go ahead and re-think. What were those five greatest accomplish- ments in your life? Was it the jump shot at the buzzer. Or was it something your mom told you. ❑