qv RAYMOND WEIL GENEVE The Russian-Speaking Baby, The Mystery Of Black Betty, And Benjamin's Letters ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM ASSOCIATE EDITOR ne baby spent a lot of time speaking Russian. It wasn't that she was saying da or nyet. It was simply a lack of communication. A relative of ours had just ar- rived from Russia and was stay- ing with us for a few weeks. She was a lovely person, yet we had no language in common. Though we did our best to supply all her needs, she would make un- intelligible re- quests, and we all ended up being frustrated. Ever since, the chil- dren use the ' term "speak- - ing Russian" when the baby is crying and they don't know what he wants. In Straight from the Heart (Targum Press), Tehilla Abramov offers advice, based on Torah and the value of nursing, to new Jew- ish mothers (like the one whose baby "speaks Russian"). Mrs. Abramov begins by stressing a woman's role in shap- ing her child's character, and the affect love has on the tiniest of human beings. She cites both rab- binic sources (Rabbi Shimshon Raphael Hirsch labeled the nurs- ing years "the most important pe- riod for education") and secular of studies (in The Man, Ashley Montagu writes of a 1915 report showing that most babies in orphanages did not sur- vive long beyond their first birth- day). The author discusses practical issues, including a chapter con- sidering the health benefits of nursing. In "More Than a Baby's Treat" she discusses the fat con- tent, carbohydrates and miner- als found in breast milk and how this affects baby's current and fu- ture health. She also offers advice on deal- ing with jaundice and thrush, and provides an appendix on breast-feeding and Halachah: when must a nursing mother fast, is breast milk kosher and for how long does Jewish law say a child may continue to nurse. n the late 1970s, D.M. Thomas began his novel with a strange dream. 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Woodward in Berkley: (810) 543-7982 This lifesaving messgtge generously 10 WI by (Ili, I an Exhibition (Scribner's) also focuses on the haunting dreams of a mysterious figure: "Why do I always dream of death?" he burst out. His brow was bathed in sweat. 'Why do I always dream of death?" Pictures at an Exhibition opens at Auschwitz, where an SS of- ' ficer is suffering with terri- ble headaches. He asks a Jewish prisoner, Galews- ki, who knows some- thing of Freudian theory, to come meet with him. (He related a dream in which he) saw the face of his mother, lying quiet, asleep, on the fresh pillow. He was sur- prised to see his mother in a farm under the mountain. He tried to rouse her but could not...He saw that the whole of the nether part of her body was being gnawed away, by rats. The doctor was sweating as he revealed the ghastly end of his dream. He sighed, recrossed his legs, took out a silver cigarette case and lit up a cigarette. "This was one of the better ones," he said. The two continue to meet, din- ing on cake and listening to Mozart, as the officer's headaches begin to disappear. Fifty years later, a famed psy- choanalyst sits listening to Mahler. He and his friends are about to be submerged into a ter- rifying nightmare. Author D.M. Thomas lives in London. He also is the author of Flying in to Love and Swallow. our persons, with little in common but their Judaism, sit in a small room crowded with furniture. All stare at a black box. The box holds a tape-recorder, and it plays the music of a cantor long dead. He is leading Rosh Hashanah services for the small Jewish corn- munity of Tokaj, Hun- gary, and despite the poor quality of the Ruth Gruber tape, the cantor's voice is mesmerizing. "It makes me shiver to hear this," says his son Lajos, one of four Jews still living in Tokaj. In Upon the Doorposts of Thy House: Jewish Life in East-Central Europe, Yester- day and Today (Wiley), jour- nalist and photographer Ruth Gruber visits Slovakia, Poland, the Czech Republic and Hungary to meet with the remnants of the Jewish community, most of which was destroyed in the Holo- caust. She speaks with Karol Sidon, new rabbi of Prague. She finds a sausage stand on the site of the former synagogue of Smichov in the Czech Republic (Hebrew writ- ing can still be seen atop the building). She visits the main Jewish cemetery of Budapest, filled with huge mausoleums and memorials. And she visits Cra- cow, where Steven Spielberg is filming Schindler's List and a re- searcher tells her, "Working on memory here is a very difficult task." Also new from Ruth Gruber, an updated version of her Jew- ish Heritage Travel: A Guide ( to East-Central Europe (Wi- ley). Filled with maps and pho- tographs, it offers extensive travel information — including details about synagogues and cemeter- ies — on Jewish communities throughout eastern Europe. Ms. Gruber is former chief UPI correspondent in Vienna, War- saw and Belgrade. She resides in Italy. asy Rawlins is looking at trouble. The private eye is deep in debt, which means he's going to have to take the case of Elizabeth "Black Betty" Eady. What a mess she's left. Then comes the news that Easy's trou- ble-making sidekick Mouse is get- ting out of jail — and he's got revenge in mind. President Clinton's favorite mystery writer Walter Mosley (who is Jewish and black, and whose works often feature figures from both worlds) has just come out with his latest, Black Betty (W. W. Norton), a story of life set in seedy, sprawling, spicy Los Angeles in the 1950s. There was a little grocery store down at the corner. I braved the morning heat and ( ( E