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Fine, Inc.), the dark protect you forever." achel C. learned about the story of a German-Jewish fami- holidays when she was a ly haunted by incest, the Holo- girl in Hebrew school. She caust and a desperate need for remembers little of it now. love. Brian J. never knew about the holi- days to begin with, and now he is embar- rassed to ask. The Jewish Holiday Home Companion: A Parent's Guide to Family Celebration (Behrman House Inc.) is an "Everything you always wanted to know about the Jew- ish holidays, but were afraid to ask" kind of guide. The instructions are basic, covering such topics as how to put candles in a Chanukah menorah, where to add the new candle on each night Andrew Bergman of the holiday and the order in which they After my father's funeral and should be lit. It informs readers interment at the Fern Cliff ceme- why the shofar is blown on Rosh tery in Westchester, everyone re- Hashanah and how to shake the turns to the apartment of my lulav on Suk k ot. A R sister and her husband, Sidney Mann... "I'm all alone now," my moth- er says, pulling me from (her sis- ter) Hilde. "You're not all alone." "You'll come live with me?" "I can't do that." "Your room is still beautiful. The neighborhood hasn't gotten any worse." "It has nothing to do with any of that. I'm thirty-two years old and it's just something that I can't see doing." 'What your friends say has nothing to do with it." "I'm not talking about my friends. I'm talking about me, my judgment." `What they say. Many of them, if they had their choice, would live with their mothers." "I can't agree with that, but in any case this is hardly the time..." "The social pressure. They're The Jewish Holiday Home Companion also features holiday recipes — to be prepared by chil- dren and parents together — for latkes, hamantashen and blintzes. Prayers and brachot, blessings, are printed in large type with English translitera- tions, so that even those with no knowledge of Hebrew can light Shabbat candles and make cer- tain their children can ask the Four Questions. ormer Detroiter Linda Brein- er Milstein is the author of a new work that offers practi- cal advice on how to aid those with serious illnesses. Giving Comfort: What You Can do When Someone You Love is Ill (Viking Penguin) has hundreds of suggestions on how to provide emotional support to loved ones in need. It reflects in part Ms. Milstein's many years working as a psychotherapist and oncology social worker at New York's Mt. Sinai Hospital. Ms. Milstein, also the author of Grandma's Jewelry Box and Amanda's Perfect Hair, is a grad- uate of Lahser High School and the University of Michigan. She now resides in New York. atred of outsiders is com- monplace," writes Joel Carmichael. "Anti-Semi- tism is unique." Mr. Carmichael is the author of The Satanizing of the Jews: H Origin and Development of Mys- tical Anti-Semitism (Fromm In- ternational), which examines the history of anti-Semitism as found in Christian theology. The disproportionate weight of the Jews in the world arises from their key role in the Christian dra- ma. In the universe framed by Christian theology, the concepts of "Jews" and "Christians" have an undeniable balance that, while statistically absurd, reflects the fundamental theme of Chris- tianity — the world of God and the world of the Devil. Since the Jews have not accepted the Chris- tian God, they have ipso facto been arrayed alongside the Devil in Christendom. Among the topics covered in Mr. Carmichael's book: the found- ing of the Christian Church, the evolution of Jewry in the Christ- ian world and the role of mysti- cal anti-Semitism in Nazi Germany. aroslaw Rymkiewicz is a Christian Pole obsessed with the death of Jews in Hitler's Poland. Umschlagplatz, the area of the Warsaw Ghetto where Jews were taken for deportation to the death j