LESST N NEUTRAL TERRITORY Are religious institutions the proper place for blacks and Jews to resolve relations? LESLEY PEARL STAFF WRITER PHOTOS BY GLENN TRI EST = Lc! 58 Kevin Early: "I've spent most of my time trying to understand people who are different from me." mid the clutter of final exams and term papers, in his office high on the fifth floor of Varner Hall at Oakland Uni- versity, Kevin Early keeps an East- er card. It's from a new friend. A woman who had Mr. Early and several other members of Plymouth Unit- ed Church of Christ, of which Mr. Early is a con- gregant, to dinner. Her name is Cindy Silverman, and she is Jewish. Ms. Silverman lives in Sterling Heights. Mr. Early resides in Bingham Farms. Their paths might never have crossed if it weren't for their convictions and congregations. For five years, Plymouth United Church of Christ in Detroit and Congregation Shir Tikvah in Troy have been courting each other. There have been pulpit exchanges and the planting of a peace pole — a wooden stick expressing a mes- sage of goodwill in four languages — by mem- bers of both institutions in the church's front lawn. Newsletters list social groups and meet- ings open to members of both congregations. In March, Shir Tikvah congregants invited Plymouth members into their homes for Shab- bat dinner. Newspapers are filled with reports of the anti- Semitic messages of the Rev. Louis Farrakhan and his associates in the Black Muslim sect Na- tion of Islam and Howard University's decision to cancel a speaking engagement by a Jewish scholar but allow Khalid Abdul Muhammad to visit. Howard University is a predominantly black college in Washington D.C. Meanwhile, baby boomers reminisce about marching for civil rights in the 1960s with their black brethren. But in metropolitan Detroit, most Jews and blacks don't live in the same neighborhoods. Their children attend different schools. Their political and social agendas are not even on a par. Jews speak of Israel, Middle East peace, as- similation and intermarriage. Black leaders pon- der ways to dean up neighborhoods of crime and drugs and how to best encourage education. At times the two groups meet, like in the joint penning of a letter to Sen. Carl Levin by the Jew- ish Community Council and the NAACP-Detroit Branch encouraging support of Martin Luther King Jr. Day as a federal holiday. But the schisms cause some to wonder why the leadership of both groups expend so much talk and energy on improving relations. "As Spike Lee would say, It's the right thing to do,' " said the Rev. Nicholas Hood III, spiri- tual leader of Plymouth Church and a Detroit city councilman. "It's simple but it's true. "African-American and Jewish relations weren't at the top of my agenda. The relation- ship was suggested by a lay leader. Each step has led to another and each activity and meet- ing has made sense at the time." Bracha Stein, an Oak Park resident, agrees that black-Jewish dialogue shouldn't be a top priority. In some situations, she believes it can be harmful.