young children to Detroit institutions in 1994 would probably be a more difficult decision. Any fears or misgivings the Primaks may have had moving in — Would the children have Jewish friends? (They did and still do.) Would they be safe? (They haven't had any security problems in 25 years.) — quickly dissipated. Ms. Primak says you couldn't drag her away. "We're 15 minutes from everything. We can decide at 7 p.m. on a Saturday evening to go to Orchestra Hall for a con- cert. A show for us is the Detroit Film Theatre at the Detroit Institute of Arts, dinner is Stewart's on Woodward. There's a lot of culture and convenience here," Ms. Primak said. "I love driving out on Woodward, too. The bowling alley, the car wash, the State Fair grounds. It's urban, it's excit- ing, it's raw. I'm happiest in a city." The same lust for street life attracted Evie Liberman and her husband Mur- ray to Riverfront Towers. "This nice Jewish couple had spent 27 years in Southfield. Our 2,000- square- foot home seemed huge without the chil- dren. I didn't want to own a home anymore. It was the same-old, same-old every day. I couldn't stand driving up the same driveway anymore. I couldn't stand the boredom of the suburbs, no down- town, no central point, no diversity. I couldn't deal with it anymore," Ms. Liber- man said. After considering moves to San Fran- cisco and Florida, the Libermans decid- ed to remain in Michigan and moved into the new high-rises being built on the De- troit River. "Our friends were sitting shiver for us. They thought we'd get killed or raped. But I love our high-rise. It's so self-con- tained. There's security, a restaurant, a bank, a health club, a market," Ms. Liberman said. "We're on top of every ex- pressway. We walk to Greektown. We use the PeopleMover all the time. We live among the most interesting people. What more could we want?" Ten years ago, Mr. Liberman wasn't so sure he wanted apartment living. Now he can't fathom functioning another way. "It broke my heart when we left our first home on Dexter in Detroit. I never had the same feeling about another house again. Those old homes, they had something built into them," Mr. Liber- man said. "I figured when we left South- field we'd move toward West Bloomfield like everyone else..But I didn't want the upkeep. "I'm New York-Bronx born and bred. The name of the game was survival and I was used to tenement living. Moving downtown felt like moving back to the tenements. It scared the heck out of me."