Israel And The Vatican So now that Israel and the Vatican have an- nounced intentions of full diplomatic relations, forgive us if we still have concerns. There are many, many forthright, righteous Catholic leaders all over the world who have worked hard over the years to, if not erase, then soothe the difficult history between Catholics and Jews. Most of that history involved the forced con- versions of Jews to Catholicism, the killing of Jews who didn't accept Catholicism and the looking aside by the Vatican during World War II at what was happening to Europe's Jews. We don't have to go back far, only 40 years or so, to remember an attempt at a blood libel in New England. Older Detroiters can talk of Father Coughlin's anti-Semitism broadcast nationally from the Shrine of the Little Flower in Royal Oak. And then, in more recent history, there was the issue of the Carmelite Convent's existence on the grounds of Auschwitz. Now, during a year of international warmth, where Israel is signing peace accords with its historical adversaries, we have impending recog- nition from the Vatican. At issue for the Vatican is whether or not its Catholics will have access or have to pay taxes on religious shrines and prop- erties in Israel. It was probably the momentum of this fever of peace that drove the Vatican and Israel together. At issue here among Jews is an expectation level. Just as the accord with the PLO brought out severe emotions from both sides, there is justifi- cation for healing in our relations with the orga- nized Catholic Church as well. No, there aren't Catholics throwing rocks at Israelis or settlers shooting at anyone in this case. But as every teacher of Jewish history knows, the hundreds of years of Catholic atrocities against Jews is some- thing that comes up so often it gets numbing after awhile. Perhaps these memories were muted on the world stage after 1965 when the Second Vatican Council repudiated teachings blaming Jews for the death of Jesus. But there was always the issue of recognition of Israel. As Abraham H. Foxman, national director of the Anti-Defamation League, said, "So many pre- liminary steps were taken to deal with a past that was bitter and painful. But the sad thing is that the Vatican will be almost the last country to recognize Israel." Healing time. We can't stop remembering what was said and done. We're happy about the prospects of living in a world of respect and recog- nition between Israel and the Vatican. But as we've written before about a need for cautious optimism regarding Israel and the PLO, we need to be tender with our survivors and reverent of our history. Letters Missing Title Was Inappropriate With reference to the letter from Phillip Applebaum, printed in the Letters column of The Jewish News on Dec. 10 ("Observations on Christ- mas"), the factual and theo- logical particulars he notes are appropriate. Inappropriate, however, Rachel Kapen West Bloomfield Abandoning Our Elderly Not Like Everyone Else Cr) w C/3 LU 1-- CC LU LU 1-- 4 In recent days we've read news stories in the local and national media about continuing clashes around the country dealing with Chanukah meno- rahs and Christmas decorations. They are being placed everywhere, from a town hall on public property, to a shopping mall, to Detroit's own Renaissance Center. Last week, a Jewish security guard at the Renaissance Center, who had placed decorations for secular holidays such as Halloween and Thanksgiving on her desk, was told by authori- ties to remove a Happy Chanukah sign. All around were decorations of Christmas. Hers was the only sign of Chanukah in the huge complex. Renaissance officials have since cleared up the matter and life will go on. The truth is, though, as long as these decorations are permitted and as long as we feel a need to assimilate ourselves, we'll see more and more of these conflicts. For each placement of a menorah in a public place alongside a Christmas decoration, there is a different reason. This is not to discount groups such as Lubavitch who make Chanukah symbols visible to remind Jews to light candles and urge Jews to look into the symbolism and history of the holiday. There is, however, still a danger of set- ting up a menorah in a department store or at city hall just because there are Christmas decorations present. Chanukah is not about equal time and equal placement of decorations. For that matter, neither is Christmas. Talk to many devout Christians and they'll tell you that they abhor the blatant commercializa- tion of their holiday. There are Christians who don't even celebrate Christmas by purchasing a tree and gifts, preferring instead to give to charity. We don't need to place decorations in public places if it's done in the spirit of conforming with American society. Ha Jew or any other person is prohibited from placing something because of his faith, that's a different issue, one that needs to be examined. Of course, we would support efforts to provide equal opportunity to anyone, especially by public institutions. But with that equal opportunity, we'd like to urge the opportunity that Jews have to proudly open their draperies, and let the Chanukah can- dles glow from the insides of their homes. During times of religious oppression, there are many heroic stories of how Jews kindled their candles in their basements or attics to avoid detection. There are stories of how Jews in concentration camps took whatever precious oil they could find, tore part of their garments for a wick and burned the strands to have some sort of Chanukah expe- rience. These are the issues of the holiday that are memorable and important. In this day and age, we can live up to those hero- ic acts by showing our children that the place to celebrate our holidays', be it Chanukah, Sukkot or Purim, is in our homes, not in the food court of a mall or the grounds of a municipal building. Our children need not feel left out or second to anyone if they hear Mom and Dad teach them that our holidays and symbols are about God, not ways to attract us to an all-night sale. Our survival depends on continuity that is learned at home. It's not up to a mall to provide that for us. It's not the responsibility of a man- agement company or a town. It's up to us. If our children know what is waiting for them at home, rather than what is displayed at a mall, then we can feel comfortable. And this whole menorah and Christmas tree business could take a rest because we wouldn't feel the need to be like everyone else. Chanukah to Christmas is only coincidental, and al- though Jewish tradition calls Chanukah gelt to be given to children, it bears no resem- blance to the imitation of Christmas practiced by many families. Instead of helping to per- petuate this distortion of the holiday which signifies our people's triumph over the forces of extinction and as- similation, The Jewish News would do good to help educate its readers in the wealth of Jewish literacy and tradition. Thus, imitation of others wouldn't be necessary. Amy Bigman: Rabbi, not Ms. are his references to "Amy Bigman" and "Ms. Bigman." She is not "Ms." Bigman, but an ordained rabbi, serving a congregation in the metro- politan Detroit area. Inappropriate also was your choice to print the letter as presented. Omitting Rabbi Bigman's rightful title is a less-than-subtle slur. Cecilia J. Lakin West Bloomfield The Imitation Of Christmas What a disappointment it was to see in the issue sup- posedly dedicated to Chanu- kah, on the one hand the heartwarming display of the winning entries of the annual art contest and on the other hand its total commerciali- zation as depicted in the Gift Guide which, among other things, showed Jewish chil- dren surrounded by elegantly wrapped, expensive gifts. As we all know or should know, the proximity of Does anyone care? Save Borman Hall. This Jewish home for the aged is threatened soon to be closed. Why are we abandoning our own Jewish elderly? If the state had closed it there would have been an outrageous cry. Had goyim (non-Jews) forced the closing, screams of anti-Semitism would have been heard. But now that our own Jewish Federation of Detroit has stopped funding and admis- sions, virtually closing the Borman Jewish Home for Aged, there is a deafening silence. We fought, marched and protested to help create a Jewish state to help support it. We marched and protested for Russian Jewry. Where are the moral outrage, cries of shame, the caring concern for our own poor defenseless elderly? Why are we not marching and protesting for their rights and needs? Practically every city in the United States has a Jewish home for the aged that they can look on with pride. This community also has the right to expect a clean, pleasant, safe, well-run home where good nursing and medical care are provided and where the elderly can live in digni- ty and with pride. Federation talks of alter- native care. Does this mean taking about 150 remaining ELDERLY page 8