AN ALTERNATIVE FOR THE HIGH HOLY DAYS BirminghamlBloomfield Synagogue - Chabad WE'RE A SMALL GROUP OF DEDICATED JEWS. Dedicated to the preservation and practice of Judaic worship that's been the bedrock of our people for centuries. We invite you to join with us in celebrating and reaffirming that dedication during these most holy days coming soon. Perhaps you feel it's time to reexperience the warmth and communion of what "schul" meant to our people in less "modern" times. But if never experienced . . . come see what you missed. BIRMINGHAM/BLOOMFIELD CHABAD 357 North Woodward c/o Masonic Temple, Bloomfield Hills For more information, call 544 8639 - the perfect gift • • • a subscription to THE JEWISH NEWS 27676 Franklin Road Southfield, Mich. 48034 ORDER TODAY 1— Please send gift subscription to: CC) LLI NAME = Cr) ADDRESS CITY STATE ZIP FROM I CC 1 year - $37 — 2 years - $66 — Out of State - $49 — Foreign - $89 Enclosed $ = 44 OCCASION , A Blessing Or Curse Depends On Our View RABBI IRWIN GRONER SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS I ook!" Moses exclaims to the Jewish people, "Today, I give you a blessing and a curse." (Deuteronomy 11:26) What a singular way to begin a discoourse. "Re'ey, look!" What did Moses intend that Israel see? What did he show them? We cannot dismiss the word "look" simply as a poetic expression, a figure of speech, because every word in the Torah is purposeful, deliberate, evocative of pro- found wisdom. The text suggests this thought. When we look at the world about us, do we see a blessing or a curse? Some will look with critical eyes, seek- ing fault, complaining. Others view the same scene but with different eyes and experience different percep- tions. Is the cup of our life half empty, or half full? "What do you see" is a fun- damental question that tells us more about the viewer than about the world. As we arise each morning, are we moved to words of discontent or praise? Do we feel we have been short-changed or over- paid? Is our familiar stance the posture of discontent, or are we grateful for the bless- ings of health and security and love so regularly bestow- ed upon us that we may forget their value? A noted American rabbi once made the following observation: "Stand close to a mountain and you will see on- ly a massive wall of earth and stone. Stand at a distance and you will see heights. Often, we find fault with what we see, when the fault really lies in where we stand." One salesman of shoes goes to Africa, returns and declares, "There is no use try- ing there, since the people do not even wear shoes." Another comes back and says, "What a market have I found. All we have to do is teach them how to wear shoes." And so it is with all of life. What really counts the most is not what happens to us, but how we respond. Some are blessed with the ability to find reasons for joy and gratitude wherever they look, and some are cursed with the tendency to find reasons for unhap- piness and discontent in IrwinGroner is senior rabbi of Congregation Sharrey Zedek. whatever they see and do. How do we view Jewish life? Is it a blessing or a curse? Do we see Jewish existence in our time as marked only by decay, assimilation and emp- tiness? Can we also see the sources of renewal in Jewish life, the quest for faith, the challenge of revitalizing the Jewish spirit? Have we sur- rendered to despair about the survival of the Jewish people? Do we consider the State of Israel doomed to suffer from a continual state of beliger- ence with her Arab neigh- bors? Or do we have a larger vision that sees the ultimate resolution of conflict be- tween Israel and the Arabs. Shabbat Re'e: Deuteronomy 11:26-16:17 Isaiah 54:11-55:5. Our vision is directed not only outward but inward, the smaller circle of our relation- ships. When we look at life, do we see only our own needs and concerns, or does our vi- sion encompass the hopes and yearnings of others? Do we regard our fellow human beings as persons created to advance our own welfare, or as people with hopes and aspirations, hungers and dreams like our own? In judging our fellow man, do we criticize and curse, or do we empathize and bless? The story is told of Rabbi Levi Yitzhok of Berditchev, the great lover of man kind, who was riding in a wagon with his sexton. They passed another wagon, whose axle was broken, and the driver was standing in the mud, try- ing to fix it; he was wearing his tallit and tefillin. The sex- ton was furious. "Look at the scoundrel," he exclaimed, "fixing his wagon, greasing his wheels while he is in the middle of prayer." "On, no," said Reb Levi. "Look at that wonderful Jew; even while greasing his wagon wheels, he wears his tallit and tefillin and says `Shema Yisrael.' " Every life has within it reasons for heartache and sor- row, as well as reasons for celebration and gratitude. Whether we bless or curse is our choice and ours alone. 0