75¢ t6 IYAR 5753/MAY 7, 1993 Who Is A Jew? lines it constitutes a Jewish fami- ly. This policy of offering assistance to gentile family members is one of "inclusion, not exclusion," ex- plains BIAS Director of Overseas Operations Dail Stolow. When HIAS plans resettlement efforts, no questions are asked about which refugee family members are least 146 non-Jewish refugees in Jewish; no questions are asked about the gentiles' interest in iden- this area alone. The issue begins with one's un- tifying with the Jewish communi- derstanding of "a Jewish family." ty. "We're not looking to separate As defined by HIAS, the He- brew Immigrant Aid Society, it is a group of per- sons, related by blood or mar- riage, living un- der one roof. Only one member of such a family need be Jewish. For example, David, a Jew, is to Soviet Immigrants a rrive in Israel. married Ludmilla, a gentile. In Moscow, families." The former Soviet Union did not David and Ludmilla shared an have a policy for defining Jewish apartment with Ludmilla's par- families, but it certainly had no ents, her sister and brother-in-law. Even though only one member of hesitation about labeling some- this six-person household is page 30 Jewish, according to BIAS guide- REFUGEES Each year, the Jewish community helps resettle hundreds of Russian immigrants — none of whom is Jewish. ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM ASSISTANT EDITOR hen Russian Jews come as refugees to the United States, they usually have with them bit- ter memories of persecution, sev- eral suitcases and dreams of freedom. More often than not, they also are accompanied by gentiles. The gentiles are part of what Jewish social service agencies la- bel a "Jewish family." And they account for a considerable num- ber of Russian refugees being set- tled in the United States and eligible for apartment subsidies, help finding a job and English lessons — all thanks to the fi- nancial support of the American Jewish community. Last fiscal year, which began June 1 and ended May 30, Resettlement Service of Detroit handled 487 cases. Of these, about 40 percent were Jewish-Jewish marriages. The rest were Jewish- gentile couples, accounting for at Jewish groups see school prayer as tip of iceberg. Page 14 POLITICS Floor`Fight A Senate tiff on comparing abortion and the`Holocaust. Page 29 BACKGROUND dle Age On their 45th anniversary, Israelis want a "normal" life. Page 45 SINGLE LIFE Finding The Right Roomie Is Possible 0.0 0 Do U, PAtvatizi W: fikm. weal Mgsevin e* iolt aavi tuirdf.6 -24 - . • &WO 2 EtyrtOts': 400 *add OepAtttorgit i tit% 6..b4aa4.4 rW.PI ittfir*elft Tleeadt - at a oVillite 0.4)7glitift PAW' tg difte1 0034 -, OW tattlai**, Wtte5 "tat 4 , , §;f1,t: BUSINESS s aWbreei He Ifirkatr.' atha, ationas E,4 Manotif Coodt "Otig yronttio ,nat trefli a Odtia, %%44 1 1.0 taw %ea ptet rittiat deka, Calling Professionals Some pros volunteer to help the Israelis. Page 53 3 Contents on page 3 •