WHIT 1111 The Jewish community responds to domestic abuse. "Violence exists among Jewish families... Statistics have shown it all But, statistics are debatable. They are only inanimate numbers. People are real." Rabbi Julie Ringold Spitzer, author of When Love Is Not Enough: Spousal Abuse in Rabbinic and Contemporary Judaism achel doesn't look scarred. Her hair is neatly combed and her complexion is flaw- less. Yet when she shops at Orchard Mall, she shrinks at gazes from passersby. She thinks they'll see her wounds. She fears strangers and friends will know her se- cret. Rachel's husband beat her. For almost six years, the mother of two young children did not seek help. Finally, she and her husband signed up for marital counseling with a social worker from Jewish Family Service. Rachel knew they needed therapy, but she stopped go- ing. "I was embarrassed to go