All STRESSED Up and Someplace To Go ) The job. The bills. > The in-laws. Maybe what you need is an hour in salt water. I ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM ASSISTANT EDITOR A guest enjoys some relaxation. ) lose your eyes. Now imagine you're sitting beside the sea. You hear the calm, soothing sound of the waves behind you. Overhead, the sun is warm and comforting. A soft breeze flows through your hair. You feel safe and comfort- able. Your cares are drifting away into the sea. Each wave takes a worry out farther, farther, farther into the ocean. As the water crashes gently against the hot sand, you feel yourself more and more relaxed. Your arms are relaxed. Your legs are re- laxed. There's absolutely no tension in your shoulders or neck. All right. That's enough. Any more and you'll be so rested you'll forget to finish reading this article. It's in. It's cool. It's the '90s thing to do. It is relaxation. And one local facility is dedicated en- tirely to seeing that, no mat- ter what shape a person is in when he walks through the door, he leaves feeling calm and collected. The Parker Clinic, of Bloomfield Hills, is the De- troit area's only "therapeutic relaxation center," run by Claudia Parker and Jerry Stutz. Among its offerings: massage, relaxation tapes, light and sound therapy, a sauna and a flotation tank. The pair met five years ago. Mr. Stutz was in prop- erty management. His Mure wife had her own massage clinic in Rochester, leased in one of Mr. Stutz's buildings. "One day I walked into her office and asked to use the phone to call the chiroprac- tor," he says. "For years, I'd had severe, chronic lower back pain." Ms. Parker suggested a massage instead. Mr. Stutz was wary. "Believe me, I had my con- cerns," he says. "But six months later I got off the massage table, and it was the first time in five years I wasn't experiencing debili- tating pain." With increased treatment, Mr. Stutz says, his pain dis- appeared completely. It's a typical experience for a num- ber of their clients. "We have people who have chronic headaches who, after regular massage, get rid of them," Mr. Stutz says. "One man told me he hasn't had a sick day since he started coming here." Ms. Parker got into the business 15 years ago. She was doing design for major office complexes when some- one offered her a trade: mas- sages for decorating advice. By the third massage, she