look wonderful for this event," says Ms. Lin- der. One package is a two-day treatment which includes skin care, make-up application, man- icure, pedicure and massage. Massages take about sixty to ninety min- utes and cost $40 to $50 (add another $15 to $20 if the massage practitioner comes to your home). Make sure the person giving the mas- sage is certified by the state. And note that massage affects everyone differently; you might feel the results for a week or just a day. Of course, anyone with severe wedding stress needs more than a good massage. Don't grab a pill or a cold martini. When you feel so overwhelmed that your daily routine is being disrupted, you need to seek profes- sional help from your personal physician. He or she might recommend a psychologist or psychiatrist. Perhaps the most comforting aspect of wed- ding stress is that it ends with the wedding. Then, of course, there's marriage stress... ❑ SET ECTING A WEDDING RING Selecting a wedding ring is, for many, the first opportunity to buy a piece of fine jewelry, one that will last forever. It is helpful to understand some of the ba- sic information on wedding jewelry before you begin shopping for rings. The type of ring that is best for you de- pends on the shape of your hand. Large hands can carry a bold, free-form design, while a nar- row band with a single stone is more appro- priate to a smaller hand. The per-carat price of a ring featuring a gem is determined by the cutting, color and clarity of the stone. A fine one-half carat gem will cost more than an inferior one-carat gem. Most stones are faceted, or carved, to al- low a maximum of brilliance and shine. Clarity describes the presence or absence of blemishes. If, when a stone is magnified ten times, no imperfections are visible, it is flawless. Channel set refers to stones set in parallel grooves for a sculptured look. A fiety shine is achieved when stones are held individually by metal teeth in a pronged setting. All of the guidelines will help you in your decision. However, stone, style and setting are yours to determine, according to your own idea of what makes up the perfect ring for you. 111 00000000)00000(00 j6tuba: a Jewish Marriage Contract Add this unique document to your wedding plans! The largest selection in Detroit Limited editions and original texts Orthodox, Conservative & Reform texts available Representing 12 Calligraphers Tradition! Tradition! 557-0109 Alicia R. Nelson )00000000000( 00 0 0)000000000( .2ette i4 the lteaid ostat 4tisioteA4 calq' a P e Jail- EQ.71 5., 1E1,_Unc. 39050 Schoolcraft Rd. Livonia 33238 W. Twelve Mile Farmington Hills 553-7699 full service florist 953-0560 BRIDES • JANUARY/FEBRUARY 1993 • 73