UNIQUE WEDDING GIFTS Now that wedding season is upon us and the list of gifts to buy is growing long, you are confronted or challenged with a decision: What will be a special and wonderful gift that the couple will cherish forever? Those guests who don't want to give the typical bridal reg- istry selection of assorted place settings, chi- na and crystal, should consider some of the suggestions offered by Ann Lawrence, renowned designer and purveyor of antique linens and laces. Most people are comfortable with the fa- miliar and tend to stick to the same gift over and over. It means so much more to the re- cipient when you select something a little dif- ferent or unusual. "I feel that the quality and type of gift is a real reflection on the giver, so it is important to personally choose some- thing," says Miss Lawrence. Create an indi- vidual type of gift – perhaps one centered around a particular theme. Some ideas to win their hearts — "Romantic Weekends," a set of colored Venetian cordial glasses and de- canter; 'White Nights," a basket filled with a white Brussels lace bed cover, sheets and pillowcases; "Tea for Two," a teapot and tea caddy; "My Favorite Things," a wicker ham- per filled with an assortment of dishes, glass- es, linens; and "Sweet Dreams," his and hers silk robes and dressing gowns. If you know the couple well, then consid- er their lifestyle and select a gift accordingly. For the contemporary couple who loves to entertain, a selection of Majolica luncheon plates or serving pieces is best. Traditional- ists might enjoy a cashmere paisley throw, a bamboo rocker or toile tray made into a small side table. Perhaps they like old-fash- ioned things — items such as linen table- cloths, a pair of continental size linen pillow shams with lace trim or a set of six matching Irish linen damask hand towels are a few of Ann Lawrence's favorites. Agar -den settee or a wicker loveseat could capture the romantic and practical side of the outdoor enthusiast. Some unwritten rules that are helpful to re- member when giving a gift: Even though many etiquette experts say you have a year to send your gift, Ann Lawrence feels that is too long. Three to six months seems to be much more timely as well as appropriate. How much you spend really should depend on you. She strongly believes it is the thought that counts and something from the heart means much more than a careless choice. 1 1 For People Who Love to Partyism For Weddings, Showers & More.... You'll Save when you visit our store CUSTOM ENGRAVED WEDDING INVITATIONS • 40% Off Dealer Book Prices • Vast Selection Available • In-store Foil Hot Stamping on Napkins, Matches & More Available WEDDING & SHOWER ACCESSORIES DECORATIONS & TABLEWARE A Tremendous Selection 25% to 30% O MFR. LIST EVERYDAY OFF OPENING APRIL 93 ROCHESTER ROSEVILLE FARMINGTON HILLS 1950 S. Rochester Rd. 650-2840 31900 Gratiot 293-1616 29199 Orchard Lake Rd. 553-7390 Very Creative aptd *dee- PHOTOGRAPHY 29655 W. 14 Mile Farmington Hills 932-1780 BRIDES • JANUARY/FEBRUARY 1993 • 49