Focus The edium is the Illiassage Ronna Levine and baby Alysa, left. Below, Alysa gets smooth strokes. Babies' cares are soothed away at the Shaarey Zedek Parenting Center. ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM Assistant Editor 104 fter a tough day at the of- fice or a long afternoon at home with the chil- dren, today's baby needs a way to relax. And what better way to shake off the stress so prevalent in every- day life than with a massage. A group of lucky babies and their mothers gathered recently at the Shaarey Zedek Parenting Center for a morning of "milking the leg," "feather pats" and "I- shaped strokes" on the belly. It was all part of an infant massage class, taught by Kathleen Joseph of Bloom- field Township. The course was part of a Parenting Center program called Kitchen Table, creat- ed to give instruction to new moms and offer them an op- portunity to meet each oth- er. The first Kitchen Table, which ended last week, was for mothers and infants up to 15 months. A second course begins Jan. 28. In addition to massage, classes included infant-par- ent communication and lul- labies, according to Ruth Beresh, Parenting Center di- rector. The room was warm and the lights turned low as the class began. A tape recorder played Yiddish lullabies. The babies were naked - except for the di- apers, with which,- moms were reluc- tant to part. The program began with the arms, legs and feet (massaging JI the feet has been - shown to help al- lergies, Mrs. Joseph said), then moved on to the I face, scalp, back and abdominal area. Mothers covered their'' hands with almond oil, the sweet aroma filling the room. Mrs. Joseph recommends al- ways using a vegetable - rather than petroleum -- based oil for the massage. In= addition to the almond, she likes safflower oil. Both can be found at health-food I stores. It was clear from the start