Sales staff Denise Zuckerman, Frances Berger, Ray Epstein, Muriel Rudack and Pearl Cohan. After 31 years, Ray Epstein will retire from the upscale retail business. hen Anita Naf- taly stopped by Ray and Ida's Southfield dress shop a few weeks ago, she had only a few words. "How can you do this to me?" she asked Ray Epstein, founder of the 31-year-old store that will close on Sunday. This week, Ms. Epstein, 60, begins pre- paring for her retire- ment, closing the doors W KIMBERLY LIFTON STAFF WRITER GOODBYE ay and Ida's of her popular shop in Applegate Square, which specializes in evening wear and mother-of-the- bride attire. She considered selling the business, but brokers advised her such a move could take up to a year. And she was ready to leave. "She deserves a break," Ms. Naftaly said. "But there will be a void. She will be missed. I used to come to her store when it was in Oak Park, and she used to dress me. This is like an institu- tion." The story of Ray and Ida's dates back to the old Jewish neighborhood of Detroit, where Ms. Epstein and her late mother, Ida Cohen, each invested $500 and opened a dress shop in the basement of the Cohen home on Cherry- lawn, between Curtis and Six Mile Road. Ever since, Ms. Ep- stein, now 60, has worked "six days a week for 31 years." She rarely has allowed herself time for relaxing vacations. The retail world, she said, is rewarding but a tough field. Buying trips to New York are hard work — not a world of glam- our, she added. Now she wants to relax. Ever since her GOODBYE page 52 w 2 w LIJ 51