Community Views Editor's Notebook Intergroup Relations: Community Priority Unlawful Entry: Violence Intrudes In Our Lives 'DAVID GAD HARF SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS GARY ROSENBLATT EDITOR - No group in America is more concerned about its image and relationships with outside groups than the Jewish commu- nity. While the substance and • uality of those relationships have ebbed and flowed, this outward focus has been a con- stant ever since Jews arrived in America in significant numbers in the early 20th century. The reasons for our concern about our ties to other groups are clear. For most of this cen- tury, Jews lived in urban neighborhoods among other ethnic and racial groups, with whom we shared minority tatus and often acted as rivals for scarce economic resources. As the Jewish community gained political sophistica- tion, we concluded that our public policy goals could only be achieved through coali- tions of like-minded groups. 4'he civil rights coalition of the 1950s and 1960s is the classic example of such a -coalition. Times have changed, bring- ing into question whether in- tergroup relations continue to _represent a relevant and use- ful strategy for the American newish community. For the most part, Jews no longer live in the cities; we, like the ma- jority of Americans, now reside in suburban areas and are more widely dispersed than ever before. t , The clear-cut social issues that involve a consensus by a broad-based coalition of minority groups seem absent. As the relative gap between the levels of affluence bet- ween Jews and other minori- ties seems to grow, it is more L difficult to construct local or national coalitions. Paradoxically (or perhaps not), concern is growing about anti-Semitism in the African American community and elsewhere. Perhaps it should 'come as no surprise that as the Jewish community finds itself more distant, physically and socio-economically, from other racial and ethnic minorities, stereotypes and ( bigoted attitudes take hold. ( TT' I believe the Jewish corn- munity is mistaken if we believe that intergroup rela- tions are passe and un- necessary. We should re- L commit ourselves to building . links with other groups, not David Gad-Harf is executive director of the Jewish Community Council. just to forestall anti- Semitism, for this reason alone will only meet with defensiveness and accusa- tions of racism. Instead, the Jewish com- munity has clear, self- interested, constructive reasons. First, a significant proportion of the Jewish com- munity, here and elsewhere, reside in diverse areas. Jews living as neighbors with African Americans, Arab Americans, Asian Americans, and others, have good reason to seek alliances with these groups to collaborate on shared local concerns. The Jewish Community Council has joined the Neighborhood Project in laun- ching such an alliance, the Southfield/Lathrup Multicul- tural Coalition. This coaliton brings together community groups, city government and the school district to address local issues collectively. When Perhaps the most frighten- ing aspect of the increasing violence in our society is how we get used to it, accepting fear and crime as part of our dai- ly lives. When I discovered that the back window of my car had been shattered in my driveway one day last week, my initial reaction wasn't anger. I was relieved that nothing had been stolen from the car. I never even thought to call the police. What would they do, other than file a report? I simply had the window replaced, paid the bill and considered myself fortunate. Gom zu l'tova goes the Yiddish expression. Lit- gest some story ideas and discuss that day's Torah por- tion. He was sharp and articu- late and in good health. "He could have lived to be 97," his widow said wistfully the day I visited. What was remarkable is that he refus- ed to retire and kept his job as a salesman, driving around downtown each weekday, giving his customers personal atten- tion because he was a people person. Standing in the den of his apartment, which was being used as the room for services during shiva, I noticed the newspaper articles he had clipped and a copy of Bob Woodward's The Com- manders, a study of the U.S. military's preparations for the Persian Gulf War, that "We should re-commit ourselves to building links with other groups." these efforts improve our rela- tionship with our neighbors, and when the communities in which we live are enhanc- ed, we benefit. Second, we need to increas- ingly recognize the inter- twined nature of the cities and their suburbs, and there- fore the necessity of finding ways to work with urban- based groups for the common welfare. A metropolitan area characterized by a distressed urban core, and by animosity between communities, will exact a price. Jews have a stake in the af- fairs of the entire metropoli- tan area, including the city of Detroit. The individuals holding positions of power in city and county government should consider the Jewish community as a significant factor in its own right and as a participant in coalitions for progressive public policies. The Jewish Community Council has increased its focus on city-suburban rela- tions and local government relations to ensure that Jewish interests are well- represented. To do otherwise, would deprive us of oppor- tunities to help make our neighborhoods and the whole metropolitan area more con- ducive to Jewish life. El A Chasidic boy cries next to his injured father in Crown Heights last year. erally, it means "also this for good," but in the ver- nacular it's closer to "it could have been worse." As in, "you broke your arm? You're lucky you didn't break both." The broken window oc- curred during a week in which I was made painfully aware of how violence affects our lives, even when we don't think about it. The day before I had paid a shiva call to the wife and daughter of Frank Altman, an 88-year-old man whose fatal heart attack after be- ing mugged in downtown Baltimore made the headlines of the daily pa- pers. I had come to know Mr. Altman well over the last several years. We were members of the same shul and had a little ritual of our own. Each Shabbat after services, he would come over to me and critique the cur- rent issue of the paper, sug- he had lent to me several months ago and I had recent- ly returned. Now he was dead and buried because he had the audacity to continue to func- tion as if this was still a city of civility, where an old man could believe that he would not be pounced upon on a crowded street during daylight. Mr. Altman's wife showed me a letter she had received from a man who identified himself as black, offering comfort to the victim's fami- ly and bemoaning the fact that human lives had become so devalued. She was touched by the fact that the man, a stranger, had been moved enough to write. In New York City, at least we know we're supposed to be on constant guard. I visited my nephew at Yeshiva University in Washington Heights one day last week and was amazed at the level of security there. Everywhere you go on the four-block campus there are uniformed guards with walkie-talkies and plenty of questions for visitors. It's a pain in the neck, yet comfor- ting. The head of security, a retired cop, told me that a few years ago there were seven or eight guards on campus. Now, because of the increase in crime, and fear, there are 120. "You gotta remember that this precinct had 134 murders last year," he said breezily, "and that's more than a lot of good-sized cities. I can't remember the last time it was under 100." He noted, though, that most of the murders are drug related. I was little comforted. And my nephew, who spent last year at a yeshiva in Israel and felt safe there, said he is often afraid travel- ing in New York and would not wander a block off cam- pus unprotected. His friends, virtually all of whom have studied in Israel, feel the same way. Driving home from New York with a native Mahat- tanite who moved to Israel — the West Bank, no less — several years ago, I ask him where he is more afraid. No contest, he says. America. So while we read of fearless Israelis subjected to stoning on the roads of the territories, these same Israelis read about Ameri- can women taken from their cars in suburban shopping malls and murdered. Who is more brave, who more foolish? Car jackings have shaken us especially because we used to think that we were safe inside our cars, that they were an extension of our homes. Well they are — and neither is safe. But we protect ourselves by growing ever more callous about violence. A 4- year-old killed in the cross- fire of a drug-related shooting? Tragic, but she shouldn't have been outside at night, we think to ourselves. And what of the youngster killed for his Reeboks while walking home from school? He shouldn't have worn them to school,-we conclude. The truth is that we have so little control over our security that we keep on whistling in the dark, saddened — but no longer shocked — when we hear of a UNLAWFUL page 8 -