(Left) Rabbi Arnie Sleutelberg helps with the congregation choir. (Right) Rabbi "Arnie" has seen his small congregation grow from a handful of families to over 210 with an active religious school as well. 0 Troy sually parking lot conversations are for see-you-laters or for completions of adjourned meetings or shop- ping trips. But the 1982 conversation that Phyllis Wenig had with zi - Pam Spitzer in the parking lot of the Troy branch of the United Hebrew Schools (ac- tually a church), wasn't an ending, but a beginning. Soon after, Ms. Wenig placed ads in local newspa- pers to see if there would be 1; Irina r„, - in the areas of Troy, Rochester and Rochester Hills to form a congregation. The response resulted in two meetings. The first meeting had 18 families represented by 25 people. The second meeting had 60 families and 80 people. Phyllis' husband, Paul, was out in his front yard with a sign and a flash- light, directing traffic. As it goes into six months of celebration of its 10-yeai anniversary, Congregation Shir Tikvah has over 200 member families with about 9.nn rhilfircm in its reliffious school. Next year, the Re- form congregation will be- come independent of United Hebrew Schools, choosing instead to run its own show. Rabbi Arnie Sleutelberg has a full-time pulpit. The congregation does not have its own building, yet. But ask any of its members, and they don't seem to care. For now it doesn't need a building. It has an identity instead, one stronger than brick and mortar. Shir Tikvah has held ser- vices in homes, in a Uni- tarian Church, a Lutheran