A Bais Chabad program stresses the importance of dressing properly, not just beautifully. BY ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM PHOTOGRAPHS BY DANIEL M. ROSEN I (J.) ii, = CD 132 t was an evening of long sleeves, below-the-knee skirts and high neck- lines. But nobody would have called it prudish. The first "Honoring the Jewish Woman" fashion show, spon- sored by Bais Chabad of North Oak Park and held last week at the Southfield Marriott, featured dresses by top designers like Laura Ashley, and glamourous wedding gowns that could have graced the pages of Brides magazine. Several hundred women attended the event, which began with a talk by Rivkah Slonim of New York, who discussed "Discovering Our Inner Beauty." Many today regard the word modesty as "an archaic, fossilized term," Mrs. Slonim said. Walk into Bloomingdale's and ask for a modest dress, "and they'll probably send you to the clearance rack." Instead, Mrs. Slonim proposed considering the word from a Jewish perspective. Within Judaism, she said, modesty is "first and fore- most about kiddusha, holiness." "I'm not talking about constraints," she said. "On the contrary, it means defining yourself, letting the beauty of your inner core shine through." The talk was followed by a show featuring models Joanna Abramson, Rivka Apt, Michelle Barr, Chaya Blumenfeld, Dena Borsand, Rochel Brenner, Tziril Fine, Tziril Gardin, Karen Koenig, Rivky Klainberg, Brittany Kohn, Rachel Kohn, Nacha Leaf, Joanne Lorkis, Leslie Miller, Marcy Millman, Miriam Newman, Leah Rosenberg, Sorie Rosenfeld, Aviva Rider, Leah Sarne, Sharon Schaffer, Miriam Silverstein, Aviva Tkatch, Esther Wolf and Cheryl Zuroff. The fashions included a robe decorated with gold metallic stars, a three-piece taupe suit by Laura Ashley, a maternity sailor suit with matching cap, a children's blue coat with a muff (also by Laura Ashley), and a wedding dress with a 7-foot detachable train, featuring a headpiece with pearls designed by Lisa Bell of Belle Custom Designed Bridal Veils. ❑