- ... - i/ ( II II I I 1 ti All the news that p not drink everything from one's cup in a single gulp; do not stand while eating or drinking. Johanan ben Zakkai also understood the importance of common courtesies. A leading sage of the Second Temple period, ben Zakkai was so quick to greet everyone that neither Jew nor gentile, including only slight acquaintances, was able to extend salutations first. Halachah (Jewish law) provides ex- tensive detail regarding man's behav- ior toward his fellow man. Throughout the Talmud, Jews are entreated to treat their neighbors, friends and family with kindness and proper etiquette. To embarrass another in public or in private is regarded the same as shedding his blood. One may never shame his elders. Gossip is for- bidden. So detailed is Halachah regarding proper behavior that the Talmud even instructs man to be sensitive in every moment of speech. Be careful to which man you say "Hang up this fish for me," the Talmud warns, as it might be that a member of this man's family was hanged. Ignorance Drives Negative Perceptions idespread ignorance is be- hind the Japanese popula- tion's negative perceptions about Jews, according to a new report by the American Jewish Committee. The Committee's booklet, "Japan- ese Attitudes Toward Jews," notes that Japan is home to fewer than 1,000 Jews. "The imprecise and often stereo- typic images that do exist, such as the pejorative association of Jews with money and power, have come largely from Western and other foreign sources," authors Bruce Ramer and Dr. Neil Sandberg write. "Moreover, Jews are greatly admired by many Japanese although they have very little specific W knowledge of Jews and the Jewish ex- perience." The authors note that the Japanese are fascinated by Jews, and that any books dealing with the Jewish com- munity are well read. This ranges from works like The Diary of Anne Frank to anti-Semitic treatises such as Masami Uno's Understand Judea and the World Will Come Into View. No explicitly anti-Semitic organiza- tions exist in the country, and there have been virtually no attacks against Jews. Yet, the authors report, some 85 anti- Semitic books were in print in Japan by the mid-1980s, including The Proto- cols of the Elders of Zion. — ■ ■ . ■ - . II I I / Compiled by Elizabeth Applebaum Tidbits Please Read This If You Don't Mind arents, don't be surprised if on Oct. 2 your teen-age son an- nounces, "Mother and father, I beg of you — let me fix dinner this evening." Or perhaps it will be your 11-year- =. old daughter with the request, 'Would it be all right if I did the laundry today?" Don't worry. Your children are still sane. They're just doing their part for that most auspicious of holidays, Na- _-) tional Courtesy Day. National Courtesy Day was estab- lished by the Polite Society of Great Britain (where else?), founded six years ago by the Rev. Ian Gregory. Today, the or- ganization boasts 600 members and publishes the Good Man- ners Guide. "The best reason for good manners is that it helps other people to get through their day," the - Rev. Gregory writes in the Guide. Rabbi Akiva was a man who knew the value of good manners. The great scholar invited students to eat with him just so he could teach them proper so- cial graces. Among the rules: hold no piece of bread larger than an egg; do ..... 0 THANKS. That's the word from the government of Somalia. Thousands — including count- less children — are dying of starvation in the country, but the Somalian gov- ernment is going to stand by the Arab boycott. Last week, it announced it will not accept any food or medical relief from Israel. Magen David Adorn recently started a drive to aid the victims of Somalia, with the New York office accepting con- tributions from donors in this coun- try. A spokesman for the American Friends of American Red Magen David said any donations received as part of that drive will be returned. • CONGRATULATIONS. The City of Oak Park was honored this week by the Michigan Municipal League with first place Achievement Awards for the Rothstein and Victoria Park plazas. "The completion of 1-696 caused the city to lose recreational ar- eas and experience a physical split of the community," according to the awards committee. "The city's response was the creation of two park plazas which serve as naturally attractive con- necting points between neighborhoods north and south of the freeway." • SO THAT EXPLAINS IT. The first U.S. Secretary of Defense, James Forrestal, has been described as a rigid disciplinarian and devoted sol- dier. Now a new book sheds light on why the head of the Navy during World War II may have killed himself. Driven Patriot: The Life and Times of James Forrestal, by Townsend Hoopes and Douglas Brinkley, describes the depression that consumed Forre- stal in his later years. He regretted his 1915 decision to break with his family and his church, the authors write, and was frustrated by his failure to protect the United States against "communists and Zionists." • HISTORICAL HOME. The American Jewish Historical So- ciety (AJHS) in Waltham, Mass., is now home to all archives of the North Amer- ican Conference on Ethiopian Jewry. The AJHS also houses the archives of the Council of Jewish Federations, the American Jewish Congress and the Na- tional Conference on Soviet Jewry. N USD Publishes Guide On Jerusalem he University Student Department of the American Zionist Youth Foundation (USD/AZYF) has pub- lished a new Israel-on-Campus pro- gramming guide, Jerusalem: The Campaign for the Capital. The guide fea- tures a concise history of Jerusalem and its significance to the Jewish peo- ple, as well as information on the strug- gle for the recognition of a united Jerusalem as the capital of the State of Israel. A nonpartisan college division of the T American Zionist Youth Foundation, the USD/AZYF Israel Action Center works with student representatives on more than 200 college campuses across the country to educate students about Is- rael and Zionism, to promote travel, work, study and volunteer programs in Israel, and to develop pro-Israel cam- pus leadership. For information about the guides, contact the USD/AZYF, 110 E. 59th St., third floor, New York, N.Y., 10022, or call 1-800-27-ISRAEL. Shabbat In Algarve ewish history was made in Al- garve, a province in southern Por- tugal, last July when, for the first time in 40 years, an Erev Shabbat ser- vice was held. Fourteen men, 11 women and five children attended the service, which j took place at the home of Ralf and Ju- dith Pinto in Portimao. Those attending included Portuguese, British, Israeli, French and South Americans. The Jewish community of Algarve was started by the Pintos, who already have arranged get-togethers for Chanukah, Purim, Israel Independence Day and Shavuot. Those planning to visit Algarve should telephone the Pintos at (082) 416710. Plans also are under way to renovate the old synagogue and the Jewish cemetery in Faro, the capital city of the Algarve province. Faro saw its first organized Jewish community in the 15th century. The first book to be printed in Portugal was the Pentateuch, published in 1487. Jews were expelled from the country in 1497, though many families continued to live there as Marranos. At the beginning of the 19th century, Jews again settled in Faro, opening a cemetery in 1820 and a synagogoue in 1850.