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and for those past 40 it's 17-23
percent. And a man not married
by age 40 is much less likely to
ever marry than his female coun-
terpart.
' What the studies don't indi-
cate, however, is the growing per-
1 centage of people who aren't
`) delaying marriage — but con-
sciously deciding against it.
As hard as it may be for many
mothers to accept, "singling" has
emerged as a lifestyle alternative
_ equal to marriage, not a prelude,
holding pattern or affliction.
Certainly, single professionals
enjoy greater freedom to do what
they want, eat what they like,
live as they please and buy what
they wish — without getting a sec-
ond opinion.
"Being single or married does
not determine a person's happi-
ness," maintains Dr. Cynthia
Voelz, a clinical psychologist in
Maryland. Yet try telling that
cto parents who feel it's their pre-
rogative — or obligation — to steer
their adult children into mar-
riage.
For dealing with people who
confuse settling down with being
happy, Dr. Voelz suggests this al-
,ternative to rehashing dating de-
(-- bacles or replaying the same old
debates: "Explain there are many
ways you seek and find fulfill-
`-‘ ment in your life."
Fulfillment, rather than hap-
piness, is the key, adds Dr.
Th Raznick. "When you are fully
centered — by that I mean have
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a non-issue."
However, many singles pick
up or share their mothers' inse-
curities about being unmarried
because they lack satisfaction
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-- Wondering "maybe something is
wrong with me," a self-doubting
1 single might take extreme mea-
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ing to someone other than oneself
for personal fulfillment is "dan-
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person's best interest may ad-
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sonal lives and independent sta-
cj tus, Dr. Raznick acknowledges
that parental pressure to mar-
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In his work with single clients,
he has found all parties can ben-
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on.
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sist being pulled into the parents'
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ing with your life," Dr. Raznick
says, stressing that self-deft.
tion and exploration can offer rich
personal rewards as well. "If par-
ents realize their child is in con-
trol of his or her life and making
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