ERTAINME That Voice H As Marge Simpson or in her new movie, Julie Kavner comes out of her shell. TOM TUGEND Special to The Jewish News i, this is Julie Kay- ner," the phone caller from New York says. The in- troduction is hard- ly necessary. That voice, the distinctive Bronx rasp of Marge Simpson which has been unkindly likened to a creaky gate hinge in need of oiling, is unmistakable. Although she has been on television for 17 years and is appearing in her fifth Woody Allen film, it is a safe guess that to the present generation of tube viewers, Ms. Kavner is recognized by that inimitable voice rather than her face and body. That peculiar form of anonymity is likely to change with the critical success of her first Hollywood starring role. In This Is My Life, she por- trayed a single Jewish mom who sells cosmetics at Macy's but dreams of making it big as a stand-up comic. As she starts the climb up, her two daughters are left to the care of a succession of odd baby- sitters and resent their mother's self-absorption and prolonged absences. Ulti- mately, Ms. Kavner has to resolve the by-now-familiar conflict of the successful career woman between job and family. Ms. Kavner, at 41, is not overwhelmed by her increas- ing visibility. She is that show biz rarity, a truly modest per- son, and when colleagues in her ego-inflated trade talk about her, they use such words as self-effacing, hard- working, talented, naturally funny, reclusive and unknowable. However admirable such traits, they make Ms. Kavner a tricky subject for inter- viewers, who invariably remark on how she loathes discussing her personal life, or, for that matter, opening up about her work. "I'm very, very private and I don't enjoy talking about myself to strangers," she bluntly told one reporter for a major national magazine. But once past an initial awkwardness, Ms. Kavner responds courteously, even if she rarely volunteers infor- mation on her own. Julie Deborah Kavner was born in Burbank, a Los Angeles suburb, the second daughter of native New Yorkers, on whom she model- ed her rich Bronx stage accent. Her neighborhood was largely gentile and at home, she recalls, "I was brought up in a very liberal Jewish back- ground that mainly gave me a sense of ethics and what's right and wrong, rather than L Julie Kavner with her "daughters" in This Is My Life. 6 a 8 3 ',4 I what you should eat and not eat!' Her grandparents on both sides had come to America from Russia and her parents, though native-born, spoke Yiddish to each other, especially if they wanted to keep something from their kids. In the absence of religious practice, Ms. Kavner seems to find a certain ethnic identity in the generational transmission of certain Yid- dish phrases. "Just try to get a non-Jew to say specific Yiddish words — it's impossible," she says, but makes an exception for Meryl Streep and English comedian Tracey Ullman. "Those are two people who have mastered different accents. "I don't have any children myself," Ms. Kavner says, "but my older sister has two kids and it's interesting what they pass down, so when they talk about the bellybutton, they say pipik. It'll be in- teresting whether that sort of thing will still hold a few generations down the line or whether it will be lost altogether!" Ms. Kavner's only struc- tured exposure to Judaism, if that, came as a 4 and 5 year old, when some of the Jewish families banded together and organized a Sunday school. "We got children's stories about Passover and Chanu- kah, not any deep stuff," she says. "That's about the extent of my learning about religion!' Talking about her character in This Is My Life, Ms. Kavner takes another stab at the sub-