CLOSE-UP Dr. Allen and Batya Berlin: Capturing a sense of spirituality at Temple Israel. In The Spirit Of Reform ancy Kaplan re- members years when she and her husband Michael did not even know the High Holidays had come and gone. It was a sad time in her life. Her son was experienc- ing major medical prob- lems. Mrs. Kaplan walked out of a Philadelphia hospital and into the first Jewish house of worship she could find. It happened to be a Reform temple. It felt so perfect that Mrs. Kaplan, now of West Bloomfield, and her family IN have never left the move- ment. Gail Hirschenfang re- members growing up in a Conservative synagogue and feeling there wasn't much place for her there. She had a bat mitzvah, but was not allowed to read from the Torah. She re- members the sight of the cantor's daughter sitting in the front row and har- monizing with her father. Yet the daughter was pro- hibited from sitting on the bimah. Today, Ms. Hirschenfang is the cantor at Temple Beth El. Rabbi M. Robert Syme The Reform movement in Detroit is growing with worshipers who see in it a chance for deep spirituality. PHIL JACOBS Managing Editor PHOTOS BY GLENN TRIEST tells the story of how when he was a youth, growing up in an Orthodox home in Winnipeg, his synagogue's minyan was short one man. There were 15 women nearby in the shul kitchen, but they did not count. He wanted to know why. Rabbi Syme, the dean of the Detroit Reform rab- binate at Temple Israel, made the journey from Or- thodox to Reform. Many are making the journey to Reform. The 19th century German- based movement is by all accounts Judaism's fastest- growing denomination. Underlying that growth is a move right to the heart of spirituality and all that it embodies. Reform always has emphasized social ac- tion, education and infor- mation. But for too many years, Reform was the group one was almost automatically lumped into if religious participation was at best minimal. This is changing. At least that's what the Union of Ameri- can Hebrew Congregations' numbers say. United States figures show that 35 percent of Reform congregations observe two days of Rosh