TORAH PORTION Unclear Definition Of Heifer And Life RABBI IRWIN GRONER Special to The Jewish News T featuring international dance groups, ethnic food and wine Sunday, April 5, 1992 from 4 to 7:30 p.m. (food served from 4 to 6 p.m.) Southfield Civic Center Pavilion 26000 Evergreen Road (at 10-1/2 Mile Road) $13.50 per person in advance • S15.00 per person at the door Sponsored by the City of Southfield and The International Institute of Metropolitan Detroit Proceeds benefit the International Institute's ethnic enrichment programs For ticket information, call Southfield Community Relations Dept. 354-4854 In any great recipe, there's always one special ingredient that makes the dish memorable. At the Jewish Home for Aged, that special ingredient is our Jewish tradition. It's what sets Friday evenings aglow with the warmth of Shabbat candles, softly spoken blessings, fresh baked challah, and steaming bowls of kosher chicken soup shared among old friends. In addition, our nursing homes have on-site clinics, medical and rehabilitative services, social workers assigned to residents and families, and care designed for the individual. Jewish tradition sets us apart; turns our house into a Home, and our residents into caring friends. Occupancy Available Contact Jerri Litt, MSW 532-7112 46 FRIDAY, MARCH 27, 1992 Resident, Sarah King, 94 years old his Sabbath is desig- nated as Shabbat Parah. Its name derives from the parah edumah, the red cow whose ashes were used in ancient Israel to cleanse the ritually impure of their defilement. Since only those who were free of impurity were permit- ted to partake of the pascal lamb, on the Sabbath pre- ceding Passover we recall the means by which the impure were to be restored to a state of ritual cleanliness. The procedure described was baffling and mysterious. Ashes of the cow were mixed with water and sprinkled upon those who were unclean and they became purified, while those who were engag- ed in the preparation of those ashes became unclean. Thus, the ashes rendered the pure impure, and the impure became pure. For us, living in an entire- ly different world and time, the whole ritual seems inex- plicable. Yet I believe we would be mistaken to dismiss it as a practice too esoteric for the modern Jew. For Judaism speaks to us in many ways and not through words alone. Even as it does with the most fundamental issues of the human condi- tion, Judaism finds the language people employ often inadequate. It has recourse, therefore, to symbol and ritual to dramatize that which cannot be fully articulated. Religion is concerned with experiences that are beyond reason, and therefore, finds itself sometimes limited by normal vocabulary. For words are often straightjackets into which we force our thoughts and limit the range of our ex- periential awareness. Truth, we are told by this ancient ceremony, cannot be compressed into a simple definition. It has manifold aspects. Reality is too com- plex to be neatly summarized in a single statement. It has many contradictory elements, for life unites within itself opposites. Truth may be found in a paradox. The dictionary declares that a paradox is a statement seemingly con- tradictory, which may yet be JEWISH HOME FOR AGED Nursing Facilities: Borman Hall and Prentis Manor Assisted Living: Fleischman Residence/Blumberg Plaza Irwin Groner is senior rabbi at Congregation Shaarey Zedek. true in fact. A contradiction is fatal in logic, but in life, op- posites may both be true when reconciled on a higher unity or seen from a larger perspective. The talmudic sages were sensitive to this insight. They said, "Kamah panim latorah," the Torah has many aspects, may be approached from many viewpoints and seen through different eyes. In a famous controversy in the Talmud, involving a clash of views between the schools of Hillel and Shamai, a Heavenly voice ended the argument by proclaiming "Elu va'elu .. ." both schools express the authentic truths of the Almighty. The Talmild tells a story about Rabbi Joshua ben Shemini: Shabbat Parah Leviticus 9:1-11:47, Numbers 19:1-22. Exekiel 36:16-38. Hananiah. On one of his journeys, he arrived at a crossroad and was baffled. He asked a lad who chanced to be there which road should he follow to reach the city. The boy pointed to one and said, "This road is long, but short," and to the other, he said, "This road is short, but long." The rabbi started out upon the short, but long road. After walking for some time, he found his progress blocked by gardens and orchards through which he could not pass. He retraced his steps and found the boy still stan- ding at the crossroad. "Did you not tell me that this was a short road?" the rabbi asked. "Yes, but did I not also tell you that it was the long way?" The other road led the rab- bi into the city. It was the longer way, yet the shorter road in the long run. Life is not simply a matter of "either or," "choose one or the other," but "this and that," "the one and the other." In Jewish life, this truth can be applied with great benefit. There are Jews who are in search of a definition. "What are we?" they continually ask. "A religion, a nation, a community, an ethnic group." They want an easy answer, a clear-cut definition, a precise description. Jewish group character is too complex for so facile a