leaves people thinking she is quite tough. "I consider showing weakness an unforgettable sin," Mrs. Ehrmann said. "That facade kept us alive, and I can't drop it." Mrs. Salinger, and the others, openly discussed their stories — • stories each said were kept private for years. "I was fortunate to marry a non-survivor," Mrs. Sal- inger said. "I was able to put the horror aside, yet not to forget. "I put it aside and talked little about it," she said. "But it is part of my life. I have this tremendous need and desire to connect with my past." She didn't talk about it. Rather, she spent many hours in private, writing her memoirs. Recently, the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Council accepted Mrs. Salinger's written recollections of the Holocaust. For Dr. Dwork, whose "children" were under age 16 during the war, resear- ching, interviewing and recording hundreds of now- adult child survivors of the Holocaust has become a "personal and professional obsession." ❑ Milford High Gets Lesson In Judaism AMY J. MEHLER Staff Writer S tudents at Milford High School ask tough questions about Jews and Judaism. They want to know why there are Jewish guys and girls who won't date non-Jewish guys and girls. They want to know why Jews don't accept Jesus as their Messiah. They want to know if it's true that all Jews are wealthy. Danny Yolkut, 17, Amy Zwas, 15, and Jamie Pearlberg, 17, high school students at Akiva Hebrew Everyone wanted to know why the boys wear yarmulkes. Day School in Southfield, answered every question posed to them last week by three different sections of the Milford High multicultural literature class. "We came prepared, pretty much ready for anything," said Jamie, president of the Akiva student council. Akiva's visit to Milford was the result of a chance meeting at Meadowbrook Theater several weeks ago between Alice Davies, who teaches the literature class, and Ed Codish, a high school English teacher at Akiva. They met while attending a performance of Inherit the Wind. "I approached him because of his yarmulke," Mrs. Davies said. "We got to talk- ing about where he was from and why he wears a yarmul- ke, and it occurred to me that my class on multiculturalism would benefit immensely from meeting him and his students." Mr. Codish talked it over with Rabbi Zev Shimansky, headmaster of Akiva. Ultimately, "I think the Akiva students learned as much as the students from Milford did," Mr. Codish said. Akiva students introduced themselves, then spoke about three separate topics. Mrs. Davies said for the majority of her students it was the first time they had learned anything about Judaism. Danny spoke about the re- lationship between Israel and American Jews; Amy spoke about the divisions within Judaism and Or- thodoxy; Jamie spoke about the effect the Holocaust had on American Jewry. Then the three answered questions. Everyone wanted to know why the boys wore yarmul- kes. Some remembered see- ing them before, but had always wondered about them. Others had trouble pronouncing the word. "Why do you wear that yamaha?" one girl asked. "We wear it as a sign of our religious devotion to God," said Danny. "Why don't girls wear them?" someone else asked. "Most Orthodox, married women cover their hair," Amy said. "And most women cover their heads in synagogue." "The yarmulke has tradi- tionally been a religious male symbol which originated from Eastern Europe," said Danny. Others wanted to know what a day at Akiva was like. "Well, we start about 7:30 in the morning," Jamie FIVE BILLS YOU'LL NEVER HAVE TO PAY 1. Gas 2. Electric 3. Water 4. Trash Service 5. Snow Removal ALSO INCLUDED AT NO ADDITIONAL $ Scheduled Transportation, Worship Services, Social Activities, Storage Lockers, Excellent Apartment Rates OPTIONAL: Meals, Housekeeping, Support Services • CLUB VA50MS 1 RETIREMENT COMMUNITY 28301 Franklin Road Southfield, Michigan 48034 (313) 353-2810 MEL FARR "Superstar Dealer" MERCURY LI NCOLN NEW '92 TOWN CAR "Executive Series" Stk. #20228 Mel Farr Lincoln Mercury 683.9500 Ask for: BUY TODAY ONLY $26,339* LEASE $361.66 / mo.* LARRY WALLINGFORD or CHARLES LEWIS This is absolutely the lowest price anywhere! *Plus ... we guarantee $450 more for your trade. 4178 Highland Road (M.59 near Pontiac Lake Road) WATERFORD $450 more for your trade based on avg. black book value less mileage, appearance and reconditioning. Applies to trades $5000 and above. Price includes rebates. Sale ends 6 pm, Fri., Jan. 24, 1992, 6 p.m. 36 months with 10% down. 15,000 miles per year limit. 11' per mile excess. Closed end lease. Leasee responsible for excess wear & tear, subject to 4% use tax. To get total pymts. on lease multiply pymt by I of months. With approved credit. THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 15