I llustration by Bob Lync h Detroit's Jews and blacks don't share the same dreams. Sometimes, it seems they don't share the world. NOAM M.M. NEUSNER Staff Writer 22 FRIDAY, JANUARY 10, 1992 wo Jewish men, sitting in a West Bloomfield diner, are talking in muted tones. "Yeah, I graduated from Southfield High," says one, dressed smartly in a gray suit. "Boy has that place changed," the other says. The two men grunt in agreement and return to their scrambled eggs. In the coded words of these suburban whites, "change" means Southfield High has blacks now. A young black is talking to a Jewish friend, telling him about his new job. His boss, he says, is Jewish. "I'll tell you something," the black man says. "You Jews are so condescen- ding." "What do you mean?" the Jew says. "There are a lot of Jews who work here, and they're all arrogant; they all act like they know so much." Detroit's blacks and Jews live without much understanding — even recognition — of each other. Even though Jews and blacks have lived side by side in Detroit for close to 100 years, cooperation and understan- ding between the two is far from ac- cepted. When Jews moved out of Detroit and into the suburbs, many thought they would forever go to different schools and live in different neighborhoods. But a growing black population — now 30 percent — in the once- predominantly Jewish suburbs of Oak Park and Southfield is making black- Jewish relations an issue all over again. Blacks and Jews will share the same streets, the same schools and the same city services. They will shop in the same malls and eat in the same res- taurants. As one black leader said, "You can't run away from blacks. We're every- where." Jews do not always speak in endear- ing terms about blacks. For every at- tempt by Detroit's Jewish Community Council to build bridges with the NAACP or the Urban League, there are Jews who lock their doors when they see a black on their street. In living rooms, at Shabbat tables, sometimes after synagogue services, it is not sur- prising to hear Jews — even young Jews who know little Yiddish — use the word shvartze, a prejorative term. Among blacks, Jews are peripheral, even irrelevant. They cannot under- stand Jewish angst about anti- Semitism. They don't realize that Jews consider themselves other than just "white!' What's more, some black ac- tivists and artists have touched nerves by calling Jews racists. Jews are fre- quently cited by black academics for