CONTENTS CLOSE-UP An Island In Time ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM How do busy families prepare for Shabbat? 26 ENTERTAINMENT Musical Mentor AARON HALABE A Jew is honored by a Catholic school for his second Detroit career. 69 11 UP FRONT Conservative Movement debates homosexuality. 14 DETROIT • "Changing Community" to be Council topic. • Federation prepares to move its offices. • Old Shaarey Zedek destroyed by fire. 31 BACKGROUND Israel's quibbling stems from outrage and mistrust. 39 NATIONAL 82 FOOD Some spectacular recipes for the everyday potato. DEPARTMENTS SPORTS Number Cruncher STEVE STEIN H untington Woods' Hank Wineman completes a spectacular football season and career. 48 SINGLE LIFE Changing The Pattern ROBIN SOSLOW How to avoid reruns of worst relationships. 87 Editorials Inside Washington Purely Commentary Synagogues Travel Fine Arts For Women Engagements Births Youth For Seniors Classified Ads Obituaries 6 34 42 44 62 80 86 89 94 -95 96 106 130 CANDLELIGHTING Friday, Dec. 6, 1991 4:42 p.m. Sabbath ends Dec. 7 5:48 p.m. THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS (USPS 275-520) is published every Friday with additional supplements in January, March, May, August, October and November at 27676 Franklin Road, Southfield, Michigan. Second class postage paid at Southfield, Michigan and additional mailing offices. Postmaster: Send changes to: DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 27676 Franklin Road Southfield, Michigan 48034 $31 per year $41 per year out of state 75' single copy Vol. C No. 14 December 6, 1991 THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 5 ONTENT Hersh's book is about America, not Israel.