MI THE JEWISH NEWS NOV. 8. 1991 A Toast To Jewish. Living Stand Up, Sit Down, Pray: Following The Shabbat Service By IRA J. WISE When I was a little boy, my parents took me to a cousin's bar mitzvah. I'm pretty sure that it wasn't my first worship service, but it was the first time that I tried to follow along in the prayer book. All that Hebrew and all those "upon thy this" and "upon thy that" had me thoroughly confused. It seemed a jumbled mess. It was a very intimidating moment and made the synagogue drop at least 10 spots on my all-time top-40 list of places I felt comfortable. It took a long time (and a summer at a Jewish camp) for me to overcome that prayer-anxiety. Several times in the Torah, we are told that people were created in God's image. We are also told in Vayikra (Leviticus) 19.1 to "be a holy people, for I, Adonai, your God, am holy." For many Jews, this is often taken to mean that we should do the kinds of things that God does, to try to come as close to God as we mere mortals are able. Now holiness is hard stuff to fathom — especially in America at the cusp of the 21st century. We don't seem to talk much about these things anymore. The prayer service is a journey. It is a guide to doing the kinds of things that God does. Prayer — especially in the context of a service — is a vehicle for trying to come as close to God as we mere mortals are able. It is a journey through Jewish history — we trace all the ways our ancestors have related to God in hopes of making our own connections. Some scholars have described the journey as climbing a mountain. There are three basic types of prayer: Praise, Petition and Thanksgiving: Praise: Prayers in which we say how terrific we think God is, and why. We praise God because we think that God is awesome, Continued on Page L-2