"Our focus is on creating a connected, interacting com- munity where everyone par- ticipates. We could not survive if our members only showed up three days a year." For the most part, services at T'chiyah are much like ser- vices at a Reform or Conser- vative congregation, depen- ding on who leads the service and how it is structured. At the beginning of the Torah service, rather than march with the Ibrah in a pro- cessional, congregants hand the Torah from person to per- son, from row to row, until it makes a complete circuit of the room. On the High Holidays, all congregants who have a shofar are invited to come forward and play together. The quintessential T'chiyah event is the bar or bat mitz- vah. Unlike b'nai mitzvah in many congregations, who read a small part of the Torah reading or the haftorah, b'nai mitzvah at T'chiyah usually lead all or most of the entire Saturday morning service. "Todd Schenk was our first bar mitzvah, and he set a standard that other people have tried to follow," Ms. Har- ris says. "Todd designed and led the entire service, the en- tire Torah portion, and the haftorah — he did everything. "We don't have a lot of policies, but we do have a bar and bat mitzvah policy that, in typical T'chiyah and Reconstructionist fashion, we developed after a long period of study and discussion," she adds. "Once someone came to us and said, 'I want my son to have a bar mitzvah but I'm not interested in joining. I just want your hechshir (stamp of approval)! We debated long and hard over it, and finally said no!' "My bar mitzvah was very moving," says Todd Schenk's brother, Matthew, a student at the University of Michigan. "All my life I had been part of this congregation where par- ticipation was so highly stress- ed, and now it was time for me to come and accept my respon- sibilities. We were all in tears by the end!" In many ways, Congregation T'chiyah comes closer to the Reconstructionist ideals of diversity and community transcending denomination- alism than any other Recon- structionist congregation in the country — in part because many of its members do not The Schenks: "We wanted to create an atmosphere that was family oriented." consider themselves Recon- structionists. "When we began, part of what made us unique was that we welcomed a wide range of religious beliefs, ranging from the Orthodox to the agnostic," Mr. Hansell says. "For that reason, we in- tentionally did not affiliate with any of the recognized denominations when we began. "I personally tend to describe myself — in terms of observance — as Conservative, because that's easily under- stood," Ms. Harris says. "We keep kosher, my daughter, Molly, goes to a Conservative day school, and so did my son Adam before her. But the prin- ciples of Reconstructionism, as I understand them at least, explain my approach better than anything else!' Al and Harriet Saperstein, members of T'chiyah for 12 years, describe themselves as "secular and agnostic" in their background and approach. "I am not profoundly God- oriented," Mr. Saperstein says. "I don't deny the existence, but neither is She an impor- tant part of my life. If, by Re- constructionist, you mean someone who follows Kaplan's idea that Judaism is a civiliza- tion, then yes, I'm a Recon- structionist and proud of it. But if you choose to emphasize the religious aspects of Recon- structionism, then I'm some- where on the periphery!" "I consider myself a secular Jew who belongs to a Recon- structionist congregation," says Harriet Saperstein. "On the other hand, I've learned to love our fellow congregants, and to respect our differences. As long as they're willing to tolerate our doubt, we're cer- tainly willing to tolerate their faith!' In the early 1980s T'chiyah formally affiliated with the Reconstructionist movement. "We were not interested in changing to fit in with any na- tional organization," says Bet- ty Schenk, a T'chiyah founder. "But as we studied the issue, we discovered that what we had been doing all along real- ly fit in quite comfortably with Reconstructionism." Although T'chiyah's mem- bership has hovered between 35 and 50 singles, couples and families for the last decade, the composition and character of the congregation has under- gone a gradual but definite change. On High Holidays, all congregants who have a shofar are invited to come forward and play together. "A lot of people have moved out of the downtown area," Ms. Harris says. "A lot of them were young couples in transi- tional stages in their lives, who wanted to be part of this downtown community for a while and have since moved on. "Many of those who have moved to the suburbs have maintained their member- ships; but because of the distances involved they can't be as active as they once were!" "Another change I've seen happening over the years is that many people who may have joined with limited back- grounds in Judaism have become more attuned to tradi- tional practices," adds Raina Ernstoff, who is married to Sandy Hansell. "We've had quite a few adult members who did not read Hebrew at first and do now. That change has been reflected in the nature of our services!' "We're going through a pro- cess of self-evaluation right now," adds Mr. Hansell, who also serves as chairman of T'chiyah's Long-Range Stra- tegic Planning Committee. "Part of that addresses the question of whether we should remain downtown or move out to the suburbs. "One of the things that the long-range committee has con- cluded is that after 14 years our group has gotten tired," he says. "We have to attract some new blood to reinvigorate ourselves — and I'm not altogether sure we'll be able to do that if we remain downtown." Others are convinced the future of T'chiyah belongs in the downtown area. "It says in our guiding prin- ciples that the congregation will always have a respon- sibility to the city of Detroit," says Matthew Schenk. "I have a hard time seeing how we can continue that connection with the city if the synagogue moves out." Some members of T'chiyah are also considering what many thought would never happen — hiring a rabbi. "This would not be a rabbi who would lead services, or give sermons, or be a spiritual leader of any kind. Nobody wants that," Mr. Hansell says. "What we have in mind is a part-time resource person." One thing is certain: those who choose to belong to T'chiyah will never lose sight of what makes the congrega- tion unique. "At one time we had a member, who has since pass- ed away, who had a number of physical disabilities, including a speech problem," Ms. Harris says. "We were discussing at the time whether we should open up the congregation on the High Holidays to the corn- munity at large, or keep it restricted to members — because there are hundreds of unaffiliated Jews who would like to come three days a year. "And this member stood up and said to us, 'But here I'm comfortable. Here I can sing out.' If you have a few people performing at a pulpit for the benefit of hundreds they don't know, then you can't stand up and sing out. That's what we're all about." ❑ Metro Detroit's only Reconstructionist congregation seeks to create a community based on participation. M.W. THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 31