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BLOOMFIELD Israeli Foods: Felafel, Hummus, Tabouleh, Desserts FOLK DANCE INSTRUCTOR: SHELLY JACKIER - *COMMUNITY INVITED COST $10.00 in advance 12.50 _at door 112 FRIDAY, OCTOBER 18, 1991 RSVP Marry Levin 661-9715 Eva Kraus 661-0838 o most Americans, the destruction of Pan Am Flight 103 in December 1988 was just one more burst of horrible news — a series of ghastly televi- sion images and thumping denunciations by politicians who were long on indigna- tion, short on action. But for Susan Cohen, it was the end of her life — or at least the pleasant, happy life she had known. Ms. Cohen, a children's book author, lost her only child, Theodora, on the ill- fated flight, and then watch- ed with growing horror as the U.S. government chose to ignore the death of American citizens because of its improving relations with Syria. • Ms. Cohen was in Wash- ington last week with a group of families whose lives have been touched by the plague of terrorism. Their goal was to send a hard-to- forget message to policymakers here. "Our concern is that the administration and Con- gress need to take the issue of _terrorism seriously," she said. "With the upcoming Middle East peace con- ference, we are concerned that terrorism has not really been considered. We want that changed." Specifically, the group demanded that this country insist on the extradition of known terrorists, that all terrorist bases in Syria be closed, and that no terrorists now in jail be released as part of any negotiated set- tlement. But what came across most st rongly was the feeling of abandonment that forms a disturbing bond between these families. "Everybody feels the same way," Ms. Cohen said. "We feel that there's been a cer- tain amount of grandstan- ding by President Bush and President Reagan. They'd go out and make strong statements about terrorism — but nobody actually does anything." The families who have been ravaged by terrorism, she said, have been shunned by the administration and Congress. "I feel as if we have been treated as if we were an em- barrassment," she said. "We are a symbol of the failure of the government." •-„N - FALL & WINTER FASHIONS ARRIVING DAILY 855-4464 Hunters Square • Farmington Hills Ms. Cohen is particularly troubled by shifts in U.S. policy aimed at rehabilitating Syria's Hafez al-Assad. Initially, she said, officials in Washington agreed with assessments putting much of the blame for the Pan Am bombing on Syria. But as U.S.-Syrian rela- tions improved in the wake of the Iraqi invasion of Kuwait, the administration made a clear effort to shift the blame to Libya, she said. "It's hard to avoid the con- clusion that they're trying to shift the blame to a country we are not negotiating with," she said. "Our government wants to make Assad respectable," she said. "We are asking that if they deal with these people, that they make it clear that things aren't forgiven and forgotten. These countries have to pro- ve that they have changed through their actions. The Ms. Cohen also had harsh words for Jewish organizations that did not want to get involved in the efforts of the victim families. fact is, the same people in power now in Syria were in power when these things happened. It's like dealing with Nazis." The lives of the Cohen family — her husband, Daniel, is also a children's book author — were forever changed by the bomb blast over Lockerbie, Scotland, killing their daughter who had gone to London for a semester abroad. Ms. Cohen turned herfeel- ings of betrayal into relentless activism. She began to reach out, first to other relatives of Pan Am 103 victims, then to those whose families who had been affected by other terrorist actions. Represented at last week's news conference were the families of a Navy diver killed in a 1985 hijacking, a parent whose child died in the Rome airport massacre and several families of vic- tims of the 1983 Marine bar- racks bombing in Beirut "We all have similar stories," she said. "It's more than outrage; we feel aban- doned, forgotten. We feel l -4 4 4 1 4 • I -4