ENTERTAINMENT Jerry Stiller Stiller and Meara continue a professional and personal association that spans 37 years. RITA CHARLESTON Special to The Jewish News N e's Jewish; she's not. But together, the former Hershey Horo- witz and Mary Elizabeth Doyle (better known as the comedy team of Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara) formed a professional and private life that has lasted for 37 years. However, as the couple ex- plained from their Manhat- tan home during an inter- view, they decided to ter- minate their on-stage part- nership some 15 years ago so that their children, Ben and Amy, who had traveled the country with them, could set- tle down in one place and en- joy a happier and more stable home life. "We didn't want the kids to be on the road all the time, studying with a tutor," Ms. Meara says. "We wanted to stay in one place and be with them." But before that decision was made, Stiller and Meara had been riding the wacky and wonderful wave of success for more than a decade. After working in improvisational theater in St. Louis in 1959, the couple decided to strike out on their own. "It was unusual to see a husband and wife comedy team in those days," Mr. Stiller says. "But we knew we had to give it a try. We were so different, both in terms of style and physical ap- pearance, that we knew we would be cast and sent away to different places and separated as a couple. So one day we decided to try and put our talents together and work as a team."' They started their act by taking suggestions from the audience and working them into mini-scenes. "People would call up dif- ferent ideas, like telling us to pretend we were in a mosque, riding a camel and you run into your father. My im- mediate thoought was the fact that here I was, a Jew froth the Bronx, so what was I doing in a mosque to begin with? In that particular scene, Anne would become the hostess who met me at the door. It was so much fun to do that we eventually decided to give ourselves sug- gestions and create our own act from those." "Jerry is the one who came up with the ideas," Ms. Meara says. "We were, doing boy-girl sketches and Jerry said, 'Why don't we just use our own background and exaggerate it?' " Their routines became a hit. Ed Sullivan, who became their mentor, booked them regularly on his hit TV show. They also began appearing all over the country and in England. But then came the time to quit the road and . go their separate ways — professional- ly that is. Mr. Stiller went on to do Anne Meara Hurlyburly and a whole host of other Broadway and off- Broadway plays. He also did films, including Pelham One, Two, Three and Hairspray. Ms. Meara became a regular on TV sitcoms and had roles in movies such as Fame, The Boys from Brazil and Lovers and Other Strangers. The couple also got involv- ed in writing, producing and acting in, commercials for such notable clients as the J. Walter Thompson advertising agency, United Van Lines, Blue Nun Wine and more. And just recently, they join- ed their considerable acting talents to appear in a seg- ment of the PBS American Playhouse special, "The Detective," the second tale in a stand-alone trilogy of "Sunset Gang" -stories. "The story centered on an elaborate hunt for disappear- ing groceries," says Mr. Stiller, "but I think more im- portantly, it addressed the topic of retirement. The man in the story is a former school- teacher, so the play revolved around what it's like to change from being active and highly thought of in the com- munity and academic world, to a life where all people talk about is their medical condi- tion, their obsession with be- ing thin, their visits and their shopping. It was a great part and really wonderful to be They started their act by taking suggestions from the audience and working them into mini-scenes. working with Anne again in a film." Although the people in "The Detective" have retired, Stiller and Meara have no such thoughts. In fact, now that their children are grown and on their own, they are taking the first step toward working the clubs together again. "Maybe," says Mr. Stiller "We never know for sure what's next for us. We never plan anything. Three or four years ago we wrote a televi- sion series, but the pilot didn't make it. We still think we're right for a TV situation if that were to come along. Or we could create one. Who knows? It's not as if we need all of these things to be hap- py. They'd be nice, but we already are happy. Together." "We invested in each other," Ms. Meara says, "and that's more important to us than anything else." As to why their marriage has survived so long in a business not noted for its long-term unions, Ms. Meara says, "Somewhere along the line I learned to listen a lit- tle better?' "And," adds her husband, "she still makes me believe I'm Marcello Mastroianni. But then, I'm willing to believe almost anything." ❑ THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 61