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V . • • • • ChAC PERSONALIZED COC.1Ch 5MCIALIZING IN QIM, INVITATIONS AND 51A- WONW)/ IN-1-10USE IMPRINTING AND CALLICiRAPI-1Y • • elk 4a4146..5. • . • • • AAA% • • 92 FRIDAY, JUNE 21, 1991 communities because it was Arab and Jewish civilians who were hurt by the war. "In a year of tension, Arab and Jewish freindships flourished here," he said. First-prize winners of the contest were Rudaina Fakhoury of Detroit Per- shing High School, Raneem Jamil of Farmington Mercy, Susan Levin of Farmington Harrison and Amy Berris of Southfield-Lathrup. Scholarship awards of $750 were given to Mona Jabr of Hazel Park High School, Summer Turfe of Dearborn Heights Crestwood, David Dressler of Berkley and Mara Scvhonberg of West Bloom- field. Scholarships of $500 were given to Dina Zubi of Bloom- field Hills Lahser, Suzanne Bazzi of Crestwood, Lara Fawaz and Ishraq Thabet of Dearborn Fordson, Jeremy Green, Paul Cherrin and Erin Einhorn of West Bloomfield High School, and Jonathan Starkman of Berkley. Four high schools were honored by the AAJF for their participation in the project: Berkley, Fordson, Southfield-Lathrup and West Bloomfield. Re-printed below are ex- cerpts from two of the winn- ing essays: 661-0177 Parents Worked Hard To Save Arab Customs RUDAINA FAKHOURY of Bar Mitzvahs, Weddings & Special Occasions • 20% OFF Shown at the Channel 50 awards presentation are Victor Ross, RaneeM Jamil, Rudaina Fakhoury, Susan Levin and Abdullah Zubi. Vizltor STUNNING VIDEO • T he American Arabic and Jewish Friends group raised more money this year than at their two previous annual dinners and were able to give out more scholarships to graduating Arab and Jew- ish high school seniors than ever before. The group had 14 entries three years ago, 45 last year and 67 this year. Last week, at an awards reception co- sponsored by WKBD-TV-50 and Hexon Corp., the 10-year-old AAJF awarded $11,000 in scholarships to 16 Detroit area students. The AAJF gave $1,000, $750 and $500 awards to winners in its annual essay contest. This year's topic was "What it means to be an American of Arabic or Jewish des- cent." "We ran the contest in the middle of another war in the Middle East," said AAJF co- chair Larry Horwitz. "We were concerned about the number of entries and our relationships. But the number of entries doubled." And, Mr. Horwitz believes, the Persian Gulf war may have helped bring together Detroit's Arab and Jewish I was only 5 years old when my family emigrated to the United States from Amman, Jordan, in 1979. Coming to America, I ex- pected everything to be dif- ferent, and it certainly was. In order for us to preserve our cultural customs, my parents maintained the same rules and regulations they were used to, and I am very grateful that they did. If it were not for them treating me that way, I would not have been able to live and know the essence of being an Arab. There are many things that make me proud of being an Arab. First, our family ties Ms. Fakhoury has just graduated from Detroit's Pershing High School and will attend Wayne State University in the fall. are very strong. We respect and obey our parents no mat- ter what situation we are in. We are also responsible for taking care of our grand- parents. An elderly person living with us is counted as a blessing. Their company is always enjoyable. They are like the village storytellers that were back then telling us tales and stories of how life once was for them. They help us learn more about our future. Grandparents are always consulted about any situa- tions or problems that happen to us because of their wisdom. Another main factor in our culture is how important the church really is. Religion is stressed in all of our gatherings. As an adult, growing up in America, we are torn between two cultures: the American and the Arabic. Our parents expect us to behave according to what they believe is proper for an Arab family. Never- theless, we try to continue to fit ourselves in the American society as well. Our marriages are not bas- ed upon dating. They are ar- Family ties are strong. The elderly are counted as a blessing. ranged by the older members of both families. To maintain our language, our parents kept speaking Arabic to us at home. When relatives were visiting, we were to speak the Arabic language with them as they spoke it to us. Our parents did not only want us to speak the language, but also to be able to read and write it. When we returned home from school in addition to the