Education, not theology, leads Jewish students to Catholic schools. than a catechism class, said Matthew Herskoviz, 15, a sophomore at U of D. "It's more like a study of religion than of God," Matthew said. "It has nothing to do with personal beliefs in God. It's a so- cial studies thing. I don't think religion classes are a big deal. "I know who I am. I have a lot of friends here. I'm very happy with my life," said Matthew, who attends U of D with his brothers, Josh, 17, and Michael, 13. "I don't think about it when they talk about Jesus." "A lot of people say prayers before classes," said Gabe Bodzin. "It's some- thing I had to expect. I never feel uncom- fortable. "There's nothing wrong learning about Catholicism," Gabe said. "It's something you have to deal with all your life. I think they do a pretty good job with religion." Natasha, a senior at Marian, said even going to mass isn't bad. "I know all the prayers by heart, but I "Theology teachers treat don't have to say them," said Natasha, who has been at Marian for three years. religion as they do any As a young girl, Natasha, who came to academic discipline, not as a the United States from the Soviet Union course to change someone's in the late 1970s, was enrolled at the Sal- religious beliefs." ly Allen Alexander Beth Jacob School for — Father Richard Twohig Girls. But she dropped out after three said. While he rejected Orthodoxy, he re- years when the administration changed tained his pro-Israel stance and his com- and decided the program was too tradi- mitment to marry a Jewish girl, prefer- tional for her. She then tried Akiva, but ably one who wants to speak Hebrew in did not like her classmates. Later, she tried secular institutions, but was either the home. "If I wanted, I could be Catholic in a bored or unhappy. So after exhausting minute," Jeff said. "I know all the her other options, she decided to try Marian. prayers, all the rules." "I like everyone here," Natasha said. Most parents agree they would not feel comfortable enrolling their children in a "When I came here, everyone was nice to Catholic school if there wasn't a strong me." Although most of her classmates take Jewish identity in the home. There are no Christmas trees in these homes and the communion during the school's monthly. families celebrate all major Jewish holi- masses, Natasha has never felt pressured or uncomfortable because she doesn't days. "We're very proud we're Jewish," said take the sacrament. "I even wear a Jewish star a lot and I Irina Rivin, who has no regrets about sending her daughter, Natasha, 17, to don't get any questions," Natasha said. While parochial schools have welcomed Marian High School, an all-girls institu- tion in Birmingham. "I don't think it those with different beliefs, Detroit's Jew- made a difference where she went to ish day schools strongly discourage Chris- school. She would still be Jewish. We're tians from enrolling and, in fact, have not a religious family, but she knows rarely had any inquiries from non-Jews. Instead, administrators at Hebrew she's Jewish." While theology classes and occasional schools prefer to have committed Jewish masses are required for everyone enrolled students. "We'll accept those of all races whether in Christian schools, learning about Christianity is more like a history lesson they are black, yellow or purple, but they Emanu-El, is an ardent supporter of Israel. With numerous relatives living in Israel, Jeff, who speaks fluent Hebrew, hopes to eventually make aliyah. Yet, Jeff can recite Catholic prayers as easily as he worships in Hebrew. A nine- year veteran of parochial schools, Jeff graduated in mid-May from Shrine High School, a coed Catholic institution in Royal Oak. "I don't regret it," he said. "It has had no effect on me as far as my Jewishness is concerned. I've always had a strong Jew- ish identity." Nine years ago, about the same time his parents enrolled him in Gesu Elementary School, Jeff became involved with the Or- thodox community in Oak Park. His new friends continually asked him to go to a yeshiva, but his parents vetoed the idea because they felt it was too traditional. As he got older, he realized being an Or- thodox Jew wasn't practical for him, Jeff have to be Jewish by halachic stan- dards," said Rabbi E.B. Freedman, ad- ministrative director at Yeshiva Beth Yehudah. "We strongly discourage non-Jews," said Ofra Fisher, Agency for Jewish Edu- cation executive director. Because the ed- ucational program is geared toward br- inging concepts learned at school into the home, "we don't know how comfortable the (non-Jewish) children will be if they make an effort to bring what they learned home and realize they can't integrate Shabbat." Father Richard Twohig, U of D prin- cipal, said non-Catholics, attracted by the school's reputation for providing a good education, have always been welcomed as long as they understand that Catholicism is a major aspect of the school and that every student must attend the school's opening mass. "Parents sign a form when they register Natalie Burge, left, is a junior and Natasha Rivin a senior at Marian High School. THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 25