I CLOSE-UP PEACE, ■ ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM Assistant Editor omen cover themselves from top to bottom. -Even young girls wear long sleeves and scarves draped across their hair. It's a question of modesty. "Ya'aleh, ya'aleh," ("Come on, come on") men call one to another down the halls of the Arab Community Center in Dearborn. Displays there show contribu- tions of the Arab people. At the front of the building, on the right, is a map of the Middle East. The tiny strip of land between Egypt and Jor- dan is marked both Palestine and Israel. This little Arab oasis in the middle of Michigan is headed by Ismael Ahmed. The son of an Egyptian father and a Lebanese mother, he was born in New York City. He closely follows events abroad, calling himself a "Middle East watcher." As such, Mr. Ahmed says, "I'm not sure the door is open to solutions." Sid Shaheen disagrees. Born in Nablus and now a resident of Dearborn, Mr. Shaheen believes a Middle East solution is as close as a Palestinian state. Their views on possibilities for peace are disparate, but both men —like other Arabs and Arab-Americans — are united by a common history, a common under- standing of the Middle East. Their star- ting points are Deir Yassin, Sabra and Shatila — sites where hundreds of Pales- tinians were murdered. Their thinking is not shaped by the Holocaust or pogroms in Russia. They believe the land of Israel belongs to the Arabs, and those among them who recognize the Jewish state do so because they have made peace with political real- ity — not because they think Jews have a claim to the land. They don't talk about biblical promises and thousand-year-old dreams; their reality is the house where they grew up in Bethlehem, the home from which they say they were expelled to make room for Zionists. Though Jews and Arabs are neighbors both in the United States and in Israel, the two seem to have little — except a mutual loathing or distrust — in common. "You don't negotiate with your friends. You negotiate with your enemy," says Osama Siblani, editor of Sada Alwatan, The Arab.American News. Most Jews believe the Arabs are the enemy. This is what the enemy says about making peace: id Shaheen calls Palestine "the old country." He was born in Ramallah and came in the 1950s to Detroit. One of the stories he remembers best from the old country involves a Jewish man who saved his life. Young Sid was working at a bookstore in Jaffa. He regularly brought copies of The Palestine Post to a linguist who lived in nearby Tel Aviv. It was a Saturday when - Sid was riding his bike, taking a delivery of papers to Tel Aviv. Some of the residents, not realizing the bicycle rider wasn't Jewish, began at- tacking him. It wasn't proper to be riding a bike on the Sabbath. Someone came by, helped him up and took him to his home. The man was Jew- ish. "He put iodine on my face and hands," Mr. Shaheen recalls. "Then he fixed my bike and took me back to the Jaffa border." Mr. Shaheen, a Christian, has thought about returning to visit Ramallah. He wanted to go in the late 1960s, then the '67 war started. He tried again in 1973; that was just before a war, too. Today, he says, Arab visitors are subject to exten- sive searches whenever they visit Israel. "That's not an atmosphere for a vaca- S Still, Mr. Shaheen says he bears no