PROFILE A WOMAN'S PLACE IS IN ... C I TNY HALL LINDA WATER Special to The Jewish News B en Rothstein says he is trying to rescind the 19th amendment. That's the one which gave American women the right to vote. But he says it with a chuckle and a twinkle in his eye. After all, he has been married for 40 years to Charlotte Rothstein, Oak Park's mayor. Mrs. Rothstein has been the mayor since 1981, but her path to Oak Park City Hall was not through hallways of smoke-filled rooms and political "This city has been a very important part of my life for 38 years, and I have been part of the city government for more than 18 of those yearsP — Mayor Rothstein caucuses. Instead of a resume peppered with polit- ical organizations, one is more apt to see a career where the PTA shares space proudly with Brandeis B'nai B'rith Women. Mrs. Rothstein is, nonetheless, a committed ac- tivist who has had more im- pact on the community in which she lives than most people ever dream of. "I love Oak Park and I love being the mayor," she said. "This city has been a very important part of my life for 38 years, and I have been part of the city government for more than 18 of those years." Mrs. Rothstein was born in Detroit, 66 years ago, as Charlotte Waterstone. She is a mother of two and grand- mother of seven. Her son, Alan, lives with his family in Southfield and is assoc- iated with Triple M Financ- ing. Her daughter, Rachel, is an attorney for the Immigra- tion and Naturalization Ser- vice and lives with her fami- ly in Vermont. Her 93-year- old father still lives in the area. A sister and brother and their families live in Oak Park. Prior to holding political office, Mrs. Rothstein's life revolved completely around her family and the commun- ity. She was a PTA mom and and an active part of wo- men's organizations. She spent years as a volunteer for the United Way and other local charities. "It got to the point where I would be working as a vol- unteer for some charity or another, and I would ring a doorbell," she said. "A child would come to the door and say, 'Mom, that same lady is here again collecting money.' That's when I decid- ed to be a chairman." Her husband, Ben, who retired six years ago as a printer, is also active in the community, taking senior citizens shopping on Wednesdays and delivering Meals on Wheels every Fri- day. He has also been active in the Downtown Synagogue for 16 years. "Charlotte and I each do our own thing," he said. "But dinners are sacred. We always try to be together at dinner, a holdover from when the children were still at home and we always ate together and on time, no matter what our com- mitments were." Those commitments run deep for this couple. Mrs. Rothstein's political life started in 1967 with her first run for the Oak Park City Council. She said that her opponent campaigned by Photos by Gle nn Triest Oak Park's mayor has been a fixture in city politics for years. Charlotte Rothstein: "I love Oak Park, I love being the mayor." saying that a Jewish woman belonged at home with her children, not in the council chambers. She lost that elec- tion by 138 votes and took the loss as an opportunity to learn more. In 1973, Mrs. Rothstein became the first woman elected to a city council seat. "I never campaigned as a woman candidate," she said, "just as a qualified can- didate. The children got tired of it. We used to get stopped in the supermarket all of the time by people who wanted to talk about com- munity issues. Eventually, they just stopped coming along." Mrs. Rothstein spent eight years in the city council, holding the job of mayor pro tern in 1976-77 and 1980-81. That was when her political life really changed. That was because then- Mayor David Shepherd died suddenly, leaving her to assume leadership of her city. "I was well prepared," she said. "But, no one is ever really ready to step into a job like that." Mr. Shephard had been in the middle of a campaign at the time of his death, and it was too late for Mrs. Roths- tein's name to be put on the ballot, so her first campaign for Oak Park's mayor was as a write-in candidate. "We had stickers made up, along with a pamphlet that explained to people how to vote for a write-in. At the polling places, people would come up to us with the pam- phlet and say, 'Tell me again now, how do I do this?' It was a tough run, but worth the fight." Since that first mayoral election, she has run and been re-elected four more times, most recently in 1989. How seriously does she take it? Her husband says that if you phoned their home the day after a mayoral election and asked for Charlotte, you would probably be told that she was out campaigning. Local government covers more than Oak Park where Mrs. Rothstein is concerned. Recently returned from the conference of the National League of Cities in Houston, she has served on the U.S. Conference of Mayors' Ad- visory Board, Arts Commis- sion, Recreation Commis- sion and Human Develop- ment Committee and is a graduate of that organiza- tion's Leadership Institute. She is a founding member of the U.S. Conference of Wo- men Mayors and a past pres- ident of the Michigan Association of Mayors. Mrs. Rothstein is also fa- miliar with lobbying on Capitol Hill where she was part of a group that lobbied successfully for more than $7.5 million in HUD funds for senior housing and for retention of millions of dollars for 1-696 freeway decks in Oak Park. The mayor also admitted that she was at one time ap- proached about a possible congressional run, but turn- ed away from it because it would have meant too much time away from Oak Park. And Oak Park is where the conversation always turns THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 39