DETROIT Kishinev Yeshiva: Love Of Torah And Spaghetti For Breakfast ELIZABETH APPLEBAUM Assistant Editor A 5-year-old, chubby cheeked boy wan- dered through the front door of the Kishinev yeshiva. "Can you teach me Heb- rew?" he asked the Ameri- can rabbi standing before him. "I want to go to Israel." The boy was typical of other Soviet Jews with whom Rabbi Yoel Sperka met during his two-month stay at the Kishinev yeshiva. Eager to learn about Judaism, the students came to the yeshiva in the morning and stayed until late at night to study with Rabbi Sperka of Congrega- tion B'nai Israel-Beth Yehudah in Oak Park. His visit was sponsored by the Agudath Israel of America. Located in the southern half of the Soviet Union near the Ukraine, Kishinev is a city of some 750,000 citizens. - The yeshiva, started six months ago by a student who has since moved to Israel, is in an older part of town. Like much of the rest of the country, the neighbor- hood is filled with drab, off- white apartments. "There's no such thing as making anything attractive in Russia," Rabbi Sperka said. "There's no such thing as creature comforts." Speaking this week at his synagogue, Rabbi Sperka described the yeshiva as a one-story building that sits near the edge of the street. Because of the limited space, rooms serve as study centers in the day and as bedrooms at night. Outside, two dogs live in the courtyard. Rabbi Sperka arrived on a Monday. The next morning, he began teaching. The day began at 8:15 a.m. with morning prayers. After studying Gemarah until 2 p.m., the students broke for New students were so dedicated to Hebrew that they would struggle syllable by syllable through the silent prayer, the Shmonei Esrei. lunch. In the afternoon, they learned Halachah (Jewish law), Chumash and Jewish thought. Many stayed to study until midnight. Rabbi Sperka gave lessons in Hebrew, which were translated into Russian. Usually, he worked with older pupils; but once, when no other teachers were available, Rabbi Sperka pulled everyone together and taught students aged 13 to 40. Some 40 men and women attend classes at the yeshiva, including both students there every day and others who drop in for an oc- casional course. Among the books the men studied were texts more than 300 years old. Contain- ed in the yeshiva library, the books were in excellent shape. "I loved those seforim (books)," Rabbi Sperka said. The Soviet Jews were es- pecially eager to learn Heb- rew, which some had already taught themselves, Rabbi Sperka said. New students were so dedicated to learn- ing the language that they would struggle syllable by syllable through the silent prayer, the Shmonei Esrei. On Shabbat, the students joined for praying and sing- ing. In addition to the tradi- tional tunes, they had their own favorite, singing over and over "Shabbat, ya loobloo tibya" (Shabbat, I love you.) After meeting for Shabbat services many of the men walked home, which meant a 45-minute journey in 10 degree and below weather. Those who dared take a shower before Shabbat faced equally harsh conditions: unheated water. "The water was so cold it was painful," Rabbi Sperka said. Yeshiva students ate meals of cabbage, potatoes and onions, some of the few foods still available in the Soviet Union. Kishinev has no kosher butcher, though Rabbi Sperka with students outside the yeshiva: "It's hard to believe it could happen in our lifetime." no one could afford meat anyway, Rabbi Sperka said. Rabbi Sperka's wife, Florene, a principal at Bais Yaakov, joined her husband for the first few weeks of his stay. She brought two suit- cases filled with food in- cluding kosher salami, tuna, peanut butter, meat and yeast, with which the students made challah. One Shabbat, the yeshiva cook even managed to make gefilte fish out of the tuna, Mrs. Sperka said. But atypical food was typical in the Soviet Union. Rabbi Sperka said the students once fixed spaghetti for breakfast. Rabbi Sperka said he found the Soviet Union a much different place than the country he visited four- and-one-half years ago. The government now permits Jewish study and Rabbi Sperka said he experienced no anti-Semitism. At the same time, Soviet citizens are under constant stress, he said. "Every day is another problem. You never know what's going to happen from day to day." Most of the Jews he met are eager to emigrate to Israel, he said. While in Kishinev, Rabbi Sperka gave a lecture to a crowd of 150 on how one can find his past in a country that has tried to obliterate much of Jewish history. The answer, he said, is through Torah and mitzvot. After the talk, students approached Rabbi Sperka with questions like, "I'd like to know the history of the Jewish people" and "What is the difference between a Jew and a non-Jew?" That such a gathering could even be held amazed Rabbi Sperka. Of the Soviet Jews' ability to practice their religion in public, he said, "It's hard to believe it could happen in our lifetime." ❑ Not All Jews Are In Love With St. Valentine's Day AMY J. MEHLER Staff Writer uestions about whether or not Jews should send each other cards and candies for St. Valentine's Day rank particularly low — if at all — in the minds of several area rabbis and Hebrew school administrators. "We need to spend our time promoting a height- ened awareness about Purim,"said Rabbi Allan Meyerowitz of B'nai Moshe in Oak Park. "That's the fun holiday in our calendar." "But if someone wonders about the propriety of giving chocolate or gifts for Valen- tine's Day," he said,"I'd suggest saving it and send- Q Artwork from Newsday by Anthony D'Adamo. Copyright* 1991, Newsday. Distributed by Los Angeles Times Syndicate. 14 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 15, 1991 ing them on Purim as mishloach manot or matanot l'evyonim, gifts to friends or poor people." Margaret Eichner, head- master of Yavneh Academy in West Bloomfield, said her students "instinctively" understand that Valentine's Day has no part in their cur- riculum. "It's simply not a Jewish holiday," she said. "It has never been a part of our angst over here." Dr. Mark Smiley, head- master of Hillel Day School and Rabbi Bruce Aft, educa- tional director of United Hebrew Schools, agreed. Once people make Valen- tine's Day an issue, Rabbi Aft said, it starts getting more attention than it deserves. "We don't find Valentine's Day to be a purely secular holiday,"Dr. Smiley said. "We encourage our teachers to largely ignore it." Ironically, the story behind what has become the year's most romantic day, February 14, began in a decidedly unromantic way. Histories of early Chris- tian martyrs mention at least two saints named Val- entine. Both are described as priests of Rome, and both re- portedly became martyrs around February 14 during the second half of the third century. Other theories associate the name of Valentine with a medieval belief that throughout rural Europe, birds began mating on February 14. Another theory