El At right, group of Darchei Torah students: "When we speak about their education, we're not just talking about books; we're talking about the kind of people they will be." Below: Principal Sara Menucha Kahn. her wit's end, she'll only say, 'I want to tell you something that's really bothering me, but I'm not going to mention any names.' " Opponents of the school haven't been as subtle. Some members of the Jewish com- munity have been critical of Mrs. Kahn's decision to start another day school when the other two local Orthodox yeshivas -- Beth Yehudah and Akiva — consistently face financial difficulties. The Lubavitch also have a day school in Farmington Hills. Detroit, the critics say, cannot afford an- other Orthodox yeshiva. Yet they said the same thing when in 1964 parents broke from Yeshiva Beth Yehudah to form Yeshivat Akiva. Others oppose the school for reasons of al tifrosh min ha-tzibur, Rabbi Hillel's direc- tive in Pirke Avot not to separate oneself from the community. By setting standards higher than Yeshiva Beth Yehudah —specifically the rule against television viewing — Darchei Torah is splitting the community ideologically, they say. Using the Talmud, Maimonides addressed the issue of businesses and schools in close proximity. Established business owners who find serious competition from new businesses often have recourse to challenge the new establishment M a beit din, Jewish court of law, he said. But schools have no such option. The Talmud states that children are entitled to the best possible education, Maimonides said. Thus, even when a new yeshiva locates directly next to an established one, the first 28 FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 8, 1991 school's administrators have no just cause for complaint. Another criticism leveled at Darchei Torah is that it is drawing students away from Beth Yehudah and Bais Yaacov. Some say this has hurt Beth Yehudah, but several yeshiva parents disagree. "Darchei Torah presents a real challenge to Beth Yehudah, and that is good," said one parent with students at Beth Yehuda. "It meant classes improved for my chil- dren." Darchei Torah parents are sensitive to remarks about the school's place in the community. But they say that plenty of students exist to fill all local Orthodox day schools, and that having choices is a positive force in the community. "As a social worker, one of the most im- portant things I tell clients is that they have options," said Sue Faitler. As to whether Detroit can afford another day school, "You can find the dollars to support what you want," she said. Mrs. Kahn does not discuss critics' com- ments about Darchei Torah, saying simply that she is the kind of person raised to do what she thinks is right, "And starting Darchei Torah was the right thing to do." A native of New York, Mrs. Kahn was the daughter of parents who believed strongly in "doing for all kinds of Jewish causes." Because there was no day school in Mon- ticello, N.Y., where they were raising their family, Mrs. Kahn's parents started their own. A graduate of Yavneh Seminary, a teach- ing academy in Cleveland, Ohio, Mrs. Kahn holds a master's degree in special education. She came to Detroit with her husband, a native of St. Paul, Minn. Her first job here was teaching learning disabled students at UHS. Earlier, she held positions in New York, teaching both first grade and special education. In 1984, Mrs. Kahn opened Darchei Torah, with herself as principal and her husband, David, as director of the boys' department. She designed the school accor- ding to what she would like for her own children. "That's how I plan my curriculum day by day," she said. Today, Mrs. Kahn teaches second-grade boys and first-grade girls. She also coor- dinates the school's English program. The classrooms at Darchei Torah are fill- ed with bright signs made of construction paper. The posters advise students against loshon hora and show young men and wo- men praying and studying Torah. In one room where girls meet, student-made penguins are decorated with poems. In Darchei Torah's Jewish education pro- gram, children give tzedakah daily; many of the tzedakah boxes are handmade by the students and decorated with bright colors and glitter. The children's relationship with their in- structors is close, Mrs. Kahn said. "Our teachers are very dedicated and devoted," she said. "They spend hours out- side the class talking to parents and work-