I OBITUARIES I Ancient tradition meets the needs of a modern world. DR. MORRIS B. SOFEN, 78, of Kalamazoo, died Jan. 17 in Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. He is survived by his wife, Ruth; son, Gene; daughter and son- in-law, Judith and Alan Silverman; son and daughter- in-law, Dr. Andrew and Carol Sofen; four grandchildren. LILLIAN SUROWITZ, 77, of Southfield, died Jan. 28. She leaves her husband, Mor- ton; daughters and son-in-law, Marilyn and Robert Solomon of Southfield, Sharon Gut- man of West Bloomfield; brother and sister-in-law, Leonard and Shirley Schultz of North Miami Beach, Fla.; five grandchildren; two great- grandchildren. Sara B. Goldberg, ORT Volunteer Sara Betty Goldberg, 66, of West Bloomfield, died Jan. 23. Mrs. Goldberg was a member of City of Hope and ORT. She leaves her husband, Joseph; sons and daughters- in-law, Mark and Lori of Far- mington Hills, Howard and Alissa of Farmington Hills; daughter and son-in-law, Karen and Jay Tower of Hun- tington Woods; brother, Reuben Atlas of Ann Arbor; six grandchildren. R. Gendelman, Food Executive Raymond Gendelman, 79, of Southfield, died Jan. 25. Mr. Gendelman was an ex- ecutive in wholesale foods and a member of the Masons. He leaves his wife, Sally; sons and daughters-in-law, Harold and Arlene of Bingham Farms, Richard and Adrianne of West Bloomfield; daughter and son-in-law, Molleen and Dr. Marty Levin of West Bloomfield; sister, Sylvia Lisnitzer of New York; eight grandchildren; three great-grandchildren. Sara Berke, Hadassah Member Sara Berke, of Beverly Hills, died Jan. 28. She was a member of Hadassah, B'nai B'rith and Rabbi Wine's study club. She leaves her husband, Herman; daughters and sons- in-law, Ronna and Dr. Stuart Kessler of Farmington Hills, Susan and Thomas Patty of West Bloomfield; brother and sister-in-law, Dr. Leon and Nancy Firestone of West Bloomfield; sister and brother-in-law, Anne and Dr. Louis Berent; two grand- children. Saul J. Bechek, Accountant Saul J. Bechek, 67, of West Bloomfield, died Jan. 28. Mr. Bechek was a CPA and retired partner of Deloitte Touche and an associate with First Holding Co. He graduated from the Universi- ty of Michigan, was a member of the Michigan Association of CPAs, Temple Emanu-El and Knollwood Country Club. Mr. Bechek leaves his wife, Annette; daughter and son- in-law, Nancy and Edward Schonberg of Birmingham; sons and daughters-in-law, Bill and Bonnie of Boyne Ci- ty, Robert and Jacqueline of Needham, Mass.; sisters and brothers-in-law, Evelyn and Julius Gutter of Columbus, Ohio, Bea and Dave Dashow of Huntington Woods; seven grandchildren. NEWS Israeli Arabs Shelter Victims Alan H .D o rfinan Funeral Direction "I have served the Jewish com- munity for almost a quarter of a century, personally handling the funeral needs of over 2,000 Detroit area families." To follow Jewish law, philosophy and tradition, Jewish funerals should be dignified, religious, and modest. Years ago, there was a brief psalm service in the deceased's home and the major service was graveside. Shfaram (JPFS) — Scores of Israeli Arabs have offered to open their homes to Jews and other Arabs from areas hit by Iraqi missiles. The invitation follows a call from the national com- mittee of Arab council heads that Israeli Arabs help all those in distress. "We are all citizens of the same country, and we are all in the same boat," said Ibrihim Nimr Hussein, committee chairman. "People in Nazareth, in Galilee villages and in the Triangle have said they are willing to take in people whose homes have been damaged or who have nobody else to care for them," said Mr. Hussein, who is also mayor of Shfaram. Today graveside funeral services are preferred by approximately 1/3 of our Jewish community, increasing in number each year. Gravesides are less drawn out, less stressful, eliminate the dangerous procession and offer the comfort and respect of friends and relatives standing shoulder to shoulder fulfilling the mitzvah of accompanying the deceased to the final resting place. Many cemeteries also have beautiful chapels on the grounds for small or large services. Germans Send War Equipment The Alan H. Dorfman Funeral Direction is now serving the entire Jewish community with dignity, sanctity and modesty. Bonn (JTA) — The German Cabinet agreed unanimous- ly to supply Israel with anti- aircraft missiles and an ad- vanced system that instant- ly warns of a poison gas at- tack. The decision followed a decision by the Bonn government to give Israel $165 million in human- itarian aid. In Vienna, meanwhile, the Austrian leadership endors- ed the idea of giving human- itarian aid to Israel in view of its status as a non- combatant that has come under attack in the Persian Gulf war. Alternative synagogue and temple services offered; Pre-need funeral arrangements are available. The Alan H. Dorfman Funeral Direction offers the best of both worlds. Other funeral homes charge the same price for gravesides as costly funeral chapel services. We offer dignified, professional service at considerable savings. We carry quality, crafted burial caskets also at substantially lower prices than other funeral establishments. We enable families to save up to $1,000 or more on graveside services. In addition, arrangements are made in the comfort and convenience of your own home. We personally and professionally handle every detail allowing you time to care for yourself and your loved ones. The deceased is handled with strict adherence to Halachah and with the utmost respect and reverence. 3924 West Twelve Mile Road Berkley, MI 48072 A. §:NT. P Phone (313) 546-4700 THE. DETROIT JEWISI4 NEWS 117