Tu B'Shevat Family Seder The Tu B'Shevat seder is an old/new tradition. The 16th Century Kabbalists ( who also brought us the Friday evening service to welcome Shabbat) gathered Erev Tu B'Shevat for singing, dancing and fruit- tasting. But the custom was lost for many centuries among the Jewish communities of the west. Winter is a wonderful time for a celebration, especially an affirmation of the coming of spring and the renewal of life. Involve children in the preparations. They may make wall hangings, place cards, decorations, set the table, help peel and cut up the fruit. To keep the attention of very young children, hide a walnut at the beginning of the seder. At the end, the one who finds it receives a prize! You may also wish to serve cookies and cakes or even a light supper in conjunction with the seder. Check a siddur for the additional food blessings. Here is your checklist of necessary items for your Tu B'Shevat seder. • Tablecloth for the seder table • A festive centerpiece • A platter of at least eight fresh fruits • A platter of at least eight dried fruits • A platter of at least eight different nuts • A pomegranate • Four pitchers of wine — One pitcher of white wine — One pitcher of red wine — One pitcher of white wine mixed with few drops of red wine — One pitcher of red wine mixed with a few drops of white wine (red and white grape juices may be substituted for very young children.) • A place setting for each seder participant including a plate, wine cup, toothpicks, fork. The First Cup: Taking care of the land. A glass of white wine or juice is poured. Olives, dates, grapes and something made from wheat flour are passed to everyone. Read aloud: Six years you shall sow your land and gather in its yield; but in the seventh you shall let it rest . Let the needy among your people eat of it, and what they leave let the wild beasts eat. You shall do the same with your vineyards and your olive groves. Exodus 23:10-11 (Tu B'Shevat Falls On January 30) When you enter the land that I give you, the land shall observe a sabbath of the Lord. Six years you may sow your field and six years you may prune your vineyard and gather in the yield. But in the seventh year the land shall have a complete sabbath of the Lord .. . Lev. 25:2-4 Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, Edo-hay- nu Me-leh ha-o-lam, sheh-heh-he-ya- nu vhee-ma-nu vhee-gee-ya-nu laz- man ha-zeh. When in a war against a city you have to besiege it a long time in order to capture it, you must not destroy its trees ... You may eat of them, but you must not cut them down Deuteronomy 20:19 What are these verses about? What was the land? Can we use the ideas behind these laws in our daily lives? How? Now we recite the brachah for the wheat dish: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, Edo-hay- nu Me-leh ha-olam, bo-ray mi-nay m'zonot. Blessed are You, 0 Lord, our God, King of the universe, who creates all kinds of food. Amen. Now the brachah for the wine and drink it: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, El-o-hay- nu Me-leh ha-o-lam bo-ray p'ree ha- gahfen. Blessed are You, 0 Lord our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the vine. Amen. The brachah for the fruits: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, Edo-hay- nu Me-leh ha-o-lam, bo-ray p'ree ha- aytz. Blessed are You, 0 Lord, our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the tree. Amen. We eat the fruits in the order they are mentioned in the Bible: olive, date and grape. planted. Write down your plans and have everyone sign the "contract." Say the brachach and drink the second cup: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai Edo-hay- nu Me-leh ha-o-lam bo-ray p'ree ha- gahfen. Blessed are You, 0 Lord our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the vine, Amen. Say the brachah for the fruits: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, E-lo-hay- nu Me-leh ha-o-lam, bo-ray p'ree ha- aytz. Blessed are You, 0 Lord our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the tree, Amen. The figs are eaten first because they are mentioned in the Bible. The Third Cup • Of trees and Sifrei Torah. Pour the third cup using half red and half white. Serve walnuts, almonds, carobs and pears. Let us sing: Aytz hayim hee la-ma- hazeekeem ba v'tohm-heh-ha m'ooshar: Dra-heh-ha darhay-no-um, vhol ne-ti-vo-teh-ha shalom. Ha-she- vay-nu A-do-nai Ay-leh-ha v'na-shu- va ha-daysh ya-may-nu k'keh-dem. What is Etz Chayim about? What is compared to an etz? How is a Torah like a tree? Recite the brachah and drink the third cup: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, Edo-hay- nu Me-Ieh ha-o-lam b-ray p'ree ha- rii4c Kitto letti,•to Cte ' The Fourth Cup: Some fun with fruits. The final cup is poured (red with just a few drops of white wine or juice) and the cherries, quinces and crabapples are served. Let us play a game: let us look at ourselves and at growing things a bit more closely than usual. One person begins by saying if I could be a tree, I'd be a because Let each person take a turn. Follow with: If I could be a fruit, flower, etc. The last cup of wine: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, Edo-hay- nu me-leh ha-o-lam, bo-ray p'ree ha- gahfen. Blessed are You, 0 Lord our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the vine, Amen. The last fruits: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai Edo-hay- nu Me-leh ha-o-lam bo-ray p'ree ha- aytz. Blessed are You, 0 Lord our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the tree, Amen. B'Shevat Fruit Kugel In Eastern Europe, a kugel was the Sabbath dessert, a sweet noodle or potato dish often made with fruit. (Serves 8). The Second Cup: INGREDIENTS Plant for the future. 8 ounces broad noodles Vegetable oil 4 tablespoons ( 1/2 stick) butter or margarine 3 eggs 1 /2 cup sugar 1 /2 pound pot cheese 1 cup sour cream 1 cup milk 1 teaspoon vanilla 1 teaspoon cinnamon 1 /2 8-ounce can crushed pineapple with juice 1 apple, diced 1 pear, diced 1 orange, peeled and diced 1 /4 cup dried apricots 1 /4 cup pitted prunes Pineapple rings Maraschino cherries The second cup of wine or juice is mostly white, with a small amount of red added. Serve figs, oranges and apples. Read aloud this story from the Talmud: Honi once saw an old man planting a carob tree and asked him how long it would take the tree to bear fruit. The man answered: Seventy years. Honi then said to him: Are you certain you will live another 70 years? You will never eat the fruit! The man replied: As my forefathers planted for me, so do I plant for my children. Plan for those at the seder to plant trees in Israel. Decide when, where and how the trees will be gahfen. Blessed are You, 0 Lord our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the vine, Amen. We recite the brachah for the fruits and nuts: Ba-ruh a-tah A-do-nai, e-lo-hay- nu Me-leh ha-o-lam, bo-ray p'ree ha- aytz. Blessed are You, 0 Lord our God, King of the universe, who creates the fruit of the tree, Amen. Adult: Partially cook the noodles in salted water with one teaspoon oil according to the directions on he label (the oil helps separate the strands). Rinse and drain. Adult: In a saucepan, melt the butter or margarine. Let cool (otherwise the eggs will curdle). Combine with the eggs and beat well. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Child: Mix together the noodles, egg mixture, sugar, pot cheese, sour cream, milk, flavorings, and all the fruits except the pineapple rings and cherries. Child: Grease the baking dish with vegetable oil. Pour in the kugel. Place pineapple rings on top, with a cherry in the middle of each ring. Adult: Bake 40-60 minutes, or until golden. Reprinted from The Children's Jewish Holiday Kitchen by Joan Nathan. THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS L-11