THE JEWISH NEWS DECEMBER 7, 1990 A Toast To Jewish Living ft Holiday's Meaning On The Move By DR. RON WOLFSON Dr. Ron Wolfson is director of the Whizin Center and Institute for Jewish Family Life at the University of Judaism in Los Angeles and the author of this month's To Our Readers. For each issue of L'Chayim, a rabbi, a Jewish educator or other notable will present an overview of the month's theme. What is Chanukah? This simple question, "What is Chanukah?, begins the Talmud's brief discussion of Chanukah. For those rabbinic sages in Babylonia who were busy creating the future of Judaism, the Judaism we now practice, the question was not rhetorical. It wasn't for pedagogic purposes. Gathered in Babylonia, some three or four hundred years after the original event, the rabbis had some serious questions about the true meaning of a holiday which `In Our Day And Age, Chanukah Has Become The Premier Public Jewish Holiday, The One Most Obviously Celebrated, And The One Whose Practical Meaning Has Become The Most Obscure: was widely celebrated, but whose central message was less than clear. For the rabbis the meaning and purpose of Chanukah were indeed in doubt; so was its authenticity. Chanukah wasn't in the Torah; it wasn't part of the Bible; it wasn't a clear and obvious mitzvah (commandment) from God. Instead, Chanukah celebrated the political and social independence of a country which had long since been destroyed. In many ways, it was false pride and an inappropriate reliance on the memories of military victories past which led to its fall. It made heroes of the Hasmonean dynasty, a dynasty which after the "Judah" generation turned into some of the cruelest and most hateful of all the Israelite kings. Yet, Chanukah was something which every Jew celebrated — it was a very popular holiday. The rabbis' challenge was to give this common practice a viable meaning, one which was worth holding on to and celebrating. Their solution was to center the celebration of Chanukah on "the miracle of the oil," an event which involved God's invention and kept the celebration's central focus far away from the Maccabees and their victories. It made Chanukah a holiday which celebrates how God helps us "when our own strength fails us." In our day and age, Chanukah has become the premier public Jewish holiday, the one most obviously celebrated, and the one whose practical meaning has become the most obscure. More than 1500 years in Christian society had shifted Chanukah's meaning and purpose. Chanukah had grown and mutated, faced off against Christmas, retreated, and then reentered the struggle. It is very clear to us that the "true meaning" of Chanukah is again on the move, and with it, the ways Chanukah is celebrated. We went and looked at what the average Jew was already doing. When we looked at practice and understandings, we found some very interesting common threads: A. The very lack of definition of specific Chanukah practice frees families and empowers tremendous creativity. In many senses, Chanukah is a much more comfortable holiday because it doesn't come with the same kinds Continued on Page L-2 Christmas 'free Rooted In Religious Symbolism By RABBI DANNEL I. SCHWARTZ Most of the year, David and Joan joke about what they call "their 'Brady Bunch' of his, her, and our children." Though Joan has converted to Judaism, the children from her first marriage were born and raised as Christians. David has joint custody of his daughter who is Jewish without any affiliation. Over the last six years, they have added two more children to the household. In December, the "Brady Bunch" joke turns into a nightmare! Her Christian sons can't understand why they don't have a tree with lights and all the trimmings at the house they live in while their Jewish children want presents at Christmas just like their brothers get. Coping with Christmas and Chanukah is hard enough under the best conditions but with a blended family it becomes tortuous. The season gives former spouses cause to question whether children are getting a true representation of their faith; while providing insecure Continued on Page L-3