Tired of all those fees on your bank statement? tell about them," said the MicroVoice rep. Doug Lachman, a social worker and director of pro- gram development at Tem- ple Beth El, said his experi- ence in counseling has taught him that "we pick up so much about people" by hearing them speak — much more than we think we do. "Most people think in the visual — if a person looks a certain way, dresses a cer- tain way, that's how they judge him or her. Sometimes they can tell something by how someone walks, how a person carries himself. But if you just listen to somebody talk, you can tell so much more about them —their sense of security, insecurity, their self-confidence, their intelligence. "You can't tell if you would like somebody just by hearing their voice, but you can tell if you wouldn't like them," said Mr. Lachman, who is a bachelor. "We don't realize how much we gather via conver- sations. (What we learn) are not always things we can put our finger on. But we do get a 'feeling sense' of the other person." "Anything that helps reduce the anxiety and difficulty of one Jew meeting another for socialization toward making a match is okay by me," said Rabbi Norman Roman of Temple Kol Ami. "Jewish singles tend to be skeptical," acknowledged Mrs. Lazar. "They don't know what they are getting into. But it (Voice Connec- tor) gives them a little more security because it elim- inates the old screening pro- cess of having to call and talk with somebody. "They have to feel secure in trying something new. Those who don't like their voices may have a problem with it." She advised Voice Connec- tor users to speak clearly into the telephone — "not necessarily slowly, just distinctly, but do go slow on entering your telephone number (as a respondent). "You can repeat the ad copy, listen to it and call back as often as you like un- til you are satisfied with how your ad sounds. If you have no success in terms of re- spondents, call back and re- record your ad," said Mrs. Lazar. The system only works with touch-tone phones. About half of the personals advertisers in Philadelphia's Jewish Exponent use voice- mail ads, said Renee Zim- merman, personals ad-taker. "The singles in their 30s to 50s really go for it." She said singles feel the results — or even the effort to meet other singles — outweigh whatever cost they incur. "One lady said she didn't get much response, but she really had a lot of fun doing the ads and she was going to keep at it." Mrs. Lazar, from MicroVoice, told her hus- band, a MicroVoice vice president, she'd help sell the system only if she could sell to Jewish newspapers, be- cause she wanted to help Jewish singles meet. She recalled seeing nu- merous ads by Jewish sin- gles in non-religious papers and wondered why they weren't in Jewish papers. "For me, it (signing up Jew- ish papers and helping Jew- ish singles) is a real mitz- vah," she said. ❑ A business checking account option at Franklin Savings Bank means no fee for deposits and checks written, and a minimal charge for account statements. Most major financial institutions in metro Detroit wouldn't dream of such a thing. Compare for yourself. You'll see what we mean when we say that at Franklin Savings Bank, our business is to help your business. NBD .220 .800 $15.00 .100 Manufacturers .2 10 .750 $13.00 .91/4 Mich. National .230 .750 $14.00 Comerica .220 .600 $13.50 .81/20 9 %0 Franklin Bank SAVINGS For more information call Singles Registry For Deaf Begins New York (JTA) — The Na- tional Conference of Synagogue Youth is beginn- ing a Jewish Deaf Singles Registry for all Jewish deaf and hard-of-hearing in- dividuals interested in meeting and corresponding with others for the purpose of marriage. For more information, send name, address, phone voice and TDD (Telecommunica- tions Device for the Deaf) to Jewish Deaf Singles Registry, c/o Fass, 3105 Avenue V. Brooklyn, N.Y., 11229. Over-50 Singles Slate Installation Single Extention Group, sponsored by Temple Israel, will hold its fourth annual in- stallation dance, 7:30 p.m. Sept. 13 at the temple. Jewish singles 50 and over are invited for dancing to a live band, light refreshments, wine and beverages. There is a nominal charge. For information, call Edith Ellis, 932-0025; or Marilyn Rosner, 683-8272. Informal Gathering Set For Singles An informal social gather- ing will be held Sept. 9 for singles 25-45. The event is offered as an alternative to dances and "happy hours." Space is limited. For infor- mation, call Vikki Coven, 548-5834; or Jonathan Polk, 541-1808. . 35 8 .5170 SOUTHFIELD ■ BIRMINGHAM GROSSE POINTE WOODS FDIC In s ured B'NAI BRITH Real Estate and Construction Unit Presents DAVID LITTMAN Vice President — Senior Economist Manufacturers National Bank of Detroit INFLATION - RECESSION Where Is This Economy Headed? Wednesday — September 12th 7:30 p.m. 5000 Town Center Community Room Evergreen & Civic Center Drive Southfield THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 101