INSIGHT FOR KIDS OF ALL AGES Live Performances DECEMBER 2 - 2:00 PM The Legend of King Arthur's Court Presented by The Mime Ensemble DECEMBER 9 - 1:00 & 3:00 PM Double Fantasy Presented by Actors Alliance Theatre DECEMBER 16 - 2:00 PM Jerry Jacoby Storyteller & Song Stylist With Elmer - the Chicken Puppet OPEN TO THE PUBLIC AT NO CHARGE Extended Holiday Hours: Sunday 12-5 / Monday-Friday 10-9 / Saturday 10-6 Saks Fifth Avenue Open All Saturdays 10-9 & Sunday 11-6 SOMERSET MALL Israeli women march during IDF graduation ceremony. For Israeli Teens, Parents Army Is A Rite Of Passage W. Big Beaver Road at Coolidge, Troy ZE'EV CHAFETS Israel Correspondent L •Custom Mirror Walls • Bi-fold Mirror Doors •Sliding Mirror Doors • Heavy Plate Glass Table Tops •Glass Pedestals with Brass or Chrome Connectors Any Size •Custom Shower Doors 32671 Northwestern Hwy. Farmington Hills Two locations to serve you 547.1214 • Berkley Store 42 FRIDAY, DECEMBER 1, 1989 ast Sunday, on a gray, windy Jerusalem mor- ning, a group of teenage girls dressed in heavy sweaters, faded jeans and tennis shoes milled around in front of the army recruiting office on Rashi Street, waiting for a bus. Among them was my daughter, Michal. Their destination was an army boot camp, less than 30 miles away. Within a few hours they would be soldiers, caught up in the confusing and demanding rituals of basic training — standing in line to get their khaki uniforms, making up cots with dusty army blankets, snapping to attention in the presence of officers only a year or two older than them- selves, pretending to feel at home in the new, impersonal world of orders and military discipline. At night, away from their parents for the first time, some of them would cry. Some of the mothers and fathers were already crying. They stuffed sandwiches into duffle bags, gave hur- ried advice and looked off into the distance for the bus with nervous expressions. The girls, already an- ticipating their new status, seemed embarrassed and amused by these last-minute parental ministrations. Sending a child off to the army is an emotional expe- rience in any country, but in Israel it is also a moment of community and continuity. The parents there that morning were a cross-section of Israel's heterogeneous ethnic, religious and economic society; but the army reminded us of the one experience we shared. Many of us could remember leav- ing for our own army duty, a generation ago, from the same military recruiting of- fice. Most of the men still serve in the reserves, mid- dle-aged brothers-in-arms to our own children. At 8 a.m. a group of ers came into uniformed soldi the courtyard of the recruiting station and stood at attention as the Israeli flag was raised. I recalled a similar ceremony from the day, in the summer of 1970, when I was inducted. Tzahal, as the Israeli army is known in Hebrew, still basked in the glow of its heroic victory in the 1967 Six Day War; we felt that we were going off to join an in- vincible military jugger- naut. A popular joke at the time was that America wanted to trade General Electric and General Motors for General Day an. The con- ventional wisdom was that it would take the Arabs at least another generation to mount a military challenge to Israel. There was no such euphoria at the recruiting station last Sunday morn- ing. The near-disaster of the 1973 Yom Kippur War, the controversial campaign in Lebanon in 1982, and the ongoing Palestinian upris- ing in the West Bank and Gaza have tarnished the army's image and made it seem a more fallible, even vulnerable, institution. Looking over the crowd, one mother spoke for many of us. "Thank God I'm sen- ding a daughter, not a son," she said. In the Israeli army, girls do not serve in combat units. They have desk jobs, usually (but not always) far from the combat zone. But for many boys, especially the best and the brightest, military service means front-line duty. The army is the first adult challenge that Israeli ado- lescents face, and they take it seriously. Serving in a well regarded unit is the equivalent of getting into an Ivy League university. For girls, the most sought after jobs are those that require intelligence and initiative; for boys, the goal is a combat unit. According to the Military Spokesman's Of- fice, more than 90 percent of the soldiers in infantry, ar- mor and artillery units are volunteers. 0