I Love to Listen 1111111111111111111111 don't want to be annoyed. We call this a "white lie," for, after all, it doesn't really hurt anybody. But something hap- pens. We have weakened our resistance to untruth, for the significant feature of a half- truth is that it's a half-lie. And thus, we adjust ourselves to the legitimacy of lying. One day, a call comes for an urgent communal need. We satisfy ourselves with less than we can give to tzedakah, with less than we can do in Haazinu Shabbat Shuva: Deuteronomy 32:1-52 Hosea 14:2-10, Micah 7:18-20, Joel 2:15-27. service. We have a great array of excuses, alibis and ra- tionalizations. "Are others giving more? Besides I have so many obligations. Also, the economic climate is so un- predictable." We soothe ourselves by these evasions; we lower the sense of obliga- tion; and we blunt our sensitivity. Consider these as small il- lustrations of a large and regular process that affects every human life. What spoils life is not catastrophic failure but slipshod habits and trill- ing stupidity. Tennyson once wrote: "It is the little rift within the lute, That by and by will make the music mute, And ever widening, slowly silence all." We are promised atonement during this season. The pro- phet Isaih declares: Im yihu chataeichem kashanim kash- leleg yalbinu — Though your sins be as scarlet, they will become as white as snow. We believe that God forgives. He will provide atonement for our grievous sins of omission and commission. He knows how frail is the flesh, how weak and fragile is the human being. He recognizes that we are, at times, over- whelmed by tidal waves of desire and that we abdicate our will, oru judgement and our reason to our appetite. Though our sins be like scarlet, crimson with rebellion and lust, proclaim- ing our shame, they will be forgiven. I worry about sins that are not scarlet but gray. They are not vivid, nor do they stand out in bright stripes and sen- sational colors. These tired sins of inertia, timidity, carelessness and laziness are dull and drab. Not being con- scious of their pernicious ef- fect, we are not likely to feel remorse or to seek forgiveness for them. Who can calculate the misery we inflict on each other by these "small" sins? My concern is not only what we do to each other, but also what these petty sins do to us, how they constantly weaken us and gnaw away at our character. It does not hurt our self-esteem to unite with the congregation in a general ad- mission as we do on Yom Kip- pur and say Ashomnu bagod- nu gazolnu — We have sinned, we dealt treacherously, we have stolen. We almost might feel smug about acknowledg- ing that we are unworthy sin- ners. But let anyone become specific about our known pet- ty faults, our weaknesses and our deficiencies and we are immediately on the defensive. On this Shabbat Shuva, or Sabbath of Return, let each of us, in the privacy of heart and mind, think about the little foxes that destroy the vineyards. Let us seek to ex- amine the small flaws, the lit- tle temptations, and the minor failures that erode the strength of our character. Let us arm ourselves against them and we shall achieve a triumph of the spirit that will enable us to win God's forgiveness. ❑ SYNAGOGUES Beth Jacob Names Officers Temple Beth Jacob recent- ly held elections for officers and the board of directors at it annual meeting. The slate of officers elected to serve for 1989-1990 are president, Jon Birnkrant; first vice presi- dent, Dr. Sheila Ronis; second vice president, George Dicks- tein; third vice president, Adam Kollin; treasurer, Marc Zupmore; and secretary, Dr. David Ronis. Elected to serve on the board are Martin Adelman, Shelley Bassin, Fred Erlich, Cathrine Goldberg, David Henig, Arthur Peisner, Bruce Welford, Dr. Avidgdor Zaromp and ex-officio Sergio Wechsler. Elections also were held for sisterhood officers. Carol Birnkrant was elected presi- dent and Cathrine Goldberg was elected treasurer. A COURSE IN MUSIC AP- PRECIATION FOR BOTH THE UNINITIATED AND SOPHISTICATED LISTENER f±m Ceilter Presented by David Syme has concertized throughout the United States and in Scotland, England, Belgium, Holland, France, Italy, Poland, Russia, Germany, Yugoslavia, Spain, Conodo, and Mexico. He has recorded five albums (with London's Royal Philharmonic and others) and his Gershwin concert video has been seen on over TOO stations nationwide. Syme has recently been featured. of Lincoln Center, Kennedy Center, the Dorothy Chandler Povilion and the Meadowbrook Festival, and has soloed nine times with the Detroit Symphony. DAVID SYME, PIANIST at TEMPLE ISRAEL 5725 Walnut Lake Road West Bloomfield 661-5700 ALL CLASSES TUESDAY 9:45-11:45 A.M. SERIES OF SIX $75* NOVEMBER 7 ....THE EDUCATED LISTENER — Understanding the sonata, rondo, variation, symphony and concerto. NOVEMBER 14 ...TCHAIKOWSKY Concerto No. 1 in B-Flat Minor NOVEMBER 21 ...RACHMANINOFF Concerto No. 2 in C Minor NOVEMBER 28 ...GERSHWIN Rhapsody in Blue and Concerto in F DECEMBER 5 . . . FREDERIC CHOPIN — his musical poetry and tragic love affair. DECEMBER 12 ...FRANZ LISZT — Hungarian Rhapsodies and the sexual revolution of 1840. Each class meeting will feature an in-depth profile of a specific piece and composer. You will hear startling "classified" information about the composers' lives, experience a complete live performance by "the immensely-accomplished American pianist David Syme". (The Times, London), and emerge with a confident understanding of some of the most-beloyed masterpieces in history. NO PRIOR MUSICAL KNOWLEDGE IS REQUIRED NAME(S) ADDRESS CITY ZIP CODE PHONE I am enclosing a check(s) for $ payable to TEMPLE ISRAEL ($75* per registrant). Please bill my ❑ Mastercard ❑ Visa Account No Expiration Date • Mail to: David Syme Series, do 'Temple Israel 5725 Walnut Lake Rd., West Bloomfield, MI 48033 *LATE REGISTRANTS AT OPENING SESSION NOVEMBER 7 — SERIES OF SIX $90 Contemporary Women's Fashions FABULOUS FALL FASHIONS 855-44641 Hunters Square • Farmington Hills THE BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP PURPOSE: To offer information and peer support to any member of the Jewish community dealing with personal loss through death. Meetings are held regularly, run by trained facilitators. SPONSOR: TEMPLE- ISRAEL 5725 WALNUT LAKE ROAD WEST BLOOMFIELD 661-5700 FUNDED BY: BARBARA E. BERNSTEIN MEMORIAL FUND ., THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 43