, v e0 Ways To Conduct Oral Interviews By MIRIAM WEINER `Ask your father and he will declare to you, your elders and they will tell you." —Deut. 32:7 Is it too late to interview an immigrant member of your family? For many of us, a portion of our family history has been lost because we waited too long to ask questions about the past and to record the memories of our relatives on tape. The first step in researching Jewish roots is to sit down with the oldest members of the family, even distant relatives, and ask them to share their memories with you. By preserving this information on tape, there is less chance for error and misunderstanding in the future. Try to avoid an interview which resembles an interrogation format of question/answer only. What you are striving for is a comfortable setting, minimal noise and distractions with a general outline of your questions. For the reluctant relative who says "I don't remember" or "who cares about all that — it happened so long ago," remind them that each family history is unique and forms part of the Jewish heritage which is passed from generation to generation. The following list of questions is meant as a guide. Obviously, the answers you receive will lead to additional questions. • Was our name changed? If so what was the original name? • Do you know the origin of the name? • What is your Hebrew name? Whom were you named after and how are you related to that person? • What towns did your family come from in Europe? Where were those towns located? • In what other nearby towns did you have family members? • Who was the first ancestor in your family to immigrate from the "old country?" When did he come? • When your ancestor came to this country, did he/she travel with other relatives? Who were they? • Who received your relative when he first immigrated and did he join a landsmanshaftn society? • What was the name of the ship and port of entry? • Was your immigrant ancestor naturalized? If so, in what court and when? • Do you have any old family documents or old photos? • What are some of your early childhood memories? L 8 - FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 22, 1989 • What were the family occupations — here and in the "old country?" • Were any family members in the military armed forces, either here or in the old country? • Were there any special family traditions, recipes, heirlooms which were handed down through the years? • What were the names and relationships of family members who perished during the Holocaust? • What contact continued with the "old country?" Did you receive letters from relatives who remained in Europe? Were those letters saved? • Do you know of any (distant) cousins who immigrated to the United States, Canada, South America, England, France, Australia, South Africa and Palestine/Israel before and after World Wars I and II? Do you have names and addresses of relatives who continue to live in Europe? • Is there a "cousins" club or family circle in existence for your family? • Do you know of any relatives who have recorded the family history? Has anyone published a history of the family? It helps to begin sentences with "tell me about ..." which will invite a narrative answer rather than just names and dates. During an oral history interview, you could ask the subject to show you family pictures and documents. Usually, it will inspire stories about various individuals. Bring your family photos to the interview for the same purpose. This is a good time to identify the people in the photos, noting name and relationship on the back of the photo. "Remember the days of old, consider the many years of many generations! —Deut. 32-17 Miriam Weiner, a certified genealogist, has prepared a beginner's guide on how to research family history that includes charts, list of archives and libraries, biblography, maps, family group sheets and more. She can be contacted at 136 Sandpiper Key, Secaucus, N.J. 07094. tot P b ate s Nitzavim And Vayelech Sidrah Nitzavim continues. with Moses' third farewell address to the Jewish people. Moses points out that all of Israel is gathered together for the completion of their covenant with God. This is a promise that is not only binding for the people who were there, but for all generations of Israel. 1. What is a covenant? 2. Why do you think it was possible for these people to make a promise not only for themselves, but for people in the future? 3. Have you ever made a promise for someone else? What happened? Sidrah VaYelech tells of the appointment of Joshua by Moses to be his successor as leader of the people Israel. 1. Think back about the years of Moses' leadership of Israel. Was he a "good leader?" What makes a good leader? 2. Who do you think of when think of a good leader? Submitted by Harlene Winnick Applebaum Coordinator, Jewish Experiences For Families Apples And Honey Answers 2. 3. N U 4. 5. ± 6. ftit L f_L- C r E C --- _E L y P 4 64 H oney