You Needn't Live Alone. Indeed, only a fateful deci- sion by his parents, Harry and Muriel Aft, kept him from having a shot at being the next Sandy Koufax. rIb many American Jews, Koufax in the early 60s was what Israel would be after the . 1967 Six-Day War: seemingly invincible. And when the Dodgers' great left-hander refused to pitch on Yom Kip- pur during the 1965 World Series — well, what more could one ask? The youngest of four brothers had a fair amount of baseball potential. The way Aft's father saw it, the major leagues weren't exactly being overwhelmed by top-notch Jewish southpaw pitchers, so he bought his right-handed youngster a left-hander's glove. Young Bruce learned to throw left-handed. He was never much of a hard thrower, but he always had good con- trol. He learned to add spin to the ball during sessions at a Chicago White Sox sports camp. But, he says, baseball was never taught at the expense of Judaism in the Conser- vative Aft family. His father worked the 11 p.m.-7 a.m. shift on Friday nights, the rabbi recalls. Earlier on those evenings, around 7 — 30 or 8 p.m., "I would lay down on the bed with my dad and he would take down the Golden Bible and read to me from it," says the rabbi. A green clock radio stood nearby "and, in the summer, when he was finished reading the Bible, he would turn on the radio in the darkened room and we'd listen to the White Sox game. If I was a good kid, I got to stay up and watch the game on TV. "I didn't know it then, but I was building up a strong identity both as a Jew and as a baseball fan. It was our Fri- day night ritual — light the candles, lay down, read the Bible and listen to the White Sox!' Rabbi Aft was only a .500 pitcher in high school, but he did much better academical- ly. He was student council president, graduating 14th out of 500 students and win- ning a B'nai B'rith college scholarship. When he enrolled at the University of Illinois, he not onlywanted to play baseball, he wanted to do thin _ gs for people. He thought he'd become a lawyer and enter politics, where he believed he could do the most for peoples' lives. But Richard Nixon and Watergate dashed that bit of idealism, and his parents' desire that he finish college turned him away from a baseball career. By the time he reached col- lege, Aft had a fastball, a change-up and a curve that dropped,. He could get a lot of ground balls and, pitching in a semi-pro league in Chicago after his freshman year, his strikeouts-to-walks ratio was 5-to-1. He was 10-1 that first sum- mer, en route to a 23-4 record over three seasons. A scout from the White Sox' Ap- pleton, Wisc., Class A farm team wanted to give him a tryout. The scout wanted Aft to drop out _of school but his parents balked. "My parents wanted us to have a good education, first and foremost!' So Aft stayed in college and a humanities course in Judaism rekindled his in- terest in his heritage. It helped him realize rabbis are role models and can have im- pact on peoples' lives, he says. He was ordained by the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College in Philadelphia in 1981. But Rabbi Aft never gave *up baseball. He continued playing in the Philadelphia area, becoming best friends with another major-league hopeful who also became a clergyman: Father Joe Gleason, a Catholic priest and third-baseman. "He hit .300, but it wasn't good enough to make the majors," Rabbi Mt recalls. Rabbi Aft also remembers a base-hit he got in one softball game. It put Father Gleason on third base, moved another priest to second and put Rab- bi Aft on first. The bases were loaded with clergymen and the other players stopped the contest, awestruck. What was said when all three then scored is lost to history, but the friendship between the rabbi and the priest wasn't. Father Gleason reminded Rabbi Aft of the common lessons of baseball when the Afts' youngest son, Adam, about three years old, was diagnosed in Tucson, Ariz. as t having a cancerous ches tumor. He is now in remission. "You have to be ready for the line drives in life," the priest wrote in a letter. "You have to take it one pitch, one batter, one inning at a time. You have to accept the good bounces and the bad bounces; keep trying to reach back, give it your best shot, dig deep and concentrate." Those words helped Rabbi FRANKLIN CLUB APARTMENTS An Adult Community 28301 Franklin Road, Southfield, Michigan 48034 (313) 353-2810 [Don't be a, hear JOE CORNEL REUNION DANCING THRU THE DECADES" SUNDAY, SEPT. 10, 6:30 p.m. HI ? NOVI HILTON HOTEL HAGGERTY ROAD & EIGHT MILE • HORS D'OEUVRES & DESSERT • CASH BAR • JERRY ROSS BAND PROCEEDS TO CITY OF HOPE 01> HELEN ROSENBERG CANCER FIGHTERS 1K Call Andi Wayburn: 258.5085 SH!! IT'S JOE'S 60TH BIRTHDAY, TOO! THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 61