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Yet he adds that "I never said that if you love, jog and eat right (and have a deadly disease) you won't die. I'm try- ing to help people learn how to live." lb help people learn how to live, Dr. Siegel in his workshops often asks par- ticipants to draw and write to express their feelings. One ac- tivity consists of writing a love note and a suicide note to oneself. Dr. Siegel said he us- ed to see page upon page of suicide notes and very few love letters. After the workshop, most participants no longer have any interest in the suicide notes, he said; instead, they are "choosing life." Or, Dr. Siegel may ask so- meone who complains, for ex- ample, of chronic backache, "What does it feel like?" and then "How do those words fit your life?" Dr. Siegel said studies sup- port his theories, though because the field is so new, lit- tle research has been done in the area of the relationship between the mind and the body. He said, however, that because "it's so expensive to be unhealthy" more research is certain to come. Dr. Siegel also said he is receiving more acceptance in the medical establishment. While his book jackets are covered with rave reviews from eternal optimist Norman Vincent Peale and advice col- umnist Ann Landers, some physicians are less than en- thusiastic about Dr. Siegel's theories. Some doctors claim his em- phasis on the mind curing the body may discourage patients from seeking established medical treatment. Dr. Siegel, who recently retired from his position with Surgical Associates in New Haven, Conn., to give speeches and lead workshops full time, said this isn't so. If a patient wants chemotherapy or pills that's fine, he said. The key question is "Does he want the medicine?" Because Dr. Siegel believes people in- tuitively know their own best treatment, he disdains doctors who prescribe medicine without even bothering to talk with their patients. "It's so easy to say, 'Here's the antibiotics, " he said. "It's time we learned how to start asking questions, like 'How are you?' " He believes some doctors have learned how to be com- fortable being doctors but not people, which is why they react negatively to his ap- proach, Dr. Siegel said. "The real villain in this whole thing is medical education." Dr. Siegel has put his theories into practice at ECAP, Exceptional Cancer Pa- tients, small groups that offer support to individuals with serious illnesses who want to participate in their own treatment. The first ECAP group was founded 11 years ago. Dr. 'It's so easy to say, "Here's the antibiotics." It's time we learned how to start asking questions, like "How are you?" Siegel said he sent 100 letters asking "Do you want to live longer? We can guarantee it," to find participants for the project. He received 12 replies. "People were told they would have to do some `homework' and several draw- ings," Dr. Siegel said of the limited response. "Now if we had said 'We have a magic pill that will guarantee longer life!' I'm sure it would have been different. That's why the groups are called exceptional!' Originally established for cancer patients, ECAP groups now include individuals with AIDS, multiple sclerosis and other ailments, Dr. Siegel said. Dr. Siegel finds his own peace of mind by keeping a journal, meditating, exercising and spending time with his wife, Bobbie, and five children. His admirers and fans abound. "I know there are a lot of people who are alive to- day simply because they got a letter from me," said Dr. Siegel, who says he answers each letter "that needs a response." Yet Dr. Siegel says he gains as much working with pa- tients as they do with him, he said. "Sitting with people for 6-8 hours is actually therapy for ma" ❑