I SINGLE LIFE leading people about one of the most important concerns in their life — their income. We should not delude ourselves into thinking other- wise. Whenever we try on a dress, take a test drive without planning to buy, or merely ask the price of a camera, we are implying the possibility of buying the item — and this is precisely what the salesperson infers. In addition to preventing us from engaging in deliberate deception, the storekeeper law teaches a deeRer lesson. It makes us keenly aware that we have obligations toward people whom in general we regard as beyond our obligation. While our society is obsess- ed with rights, Judaism is obsessed with obligations. For example, Americans are frequently made aware of con- sumer rights. Yet, here we have an instance where Judaism teaches consumer obligations. Finally, the law can easily be applied to much else in life. This was made clear to me when, after I spoke about this law, a young woman told me how she wished the men whom she dates would live by this law. So often, men imply interest that is in fact not there. Thus, for men who are dating women, a simple ap- plication of this law would read: Do not sleep with a woman if you know that you have no intention of commit- ting to her. lb many women, sexual in- timacy implies the possibility of a man's lasting commit- ment to her. (If a man disagrees with this assess- ment, Jet him, then,- simply state the truth: "I want to sleep with you, but honesty demands that I tell you now that I will not commit to you.") This law keeps you honest. 0 further information, call Sheila Pkatch, 547-5172. A splash party and bar- becue is scheduled for 2 p.m. Sept. 3 at a private residence. Reservations are required by Tuesday. Space is limited to 50 people. There is a charge. For information, call Sharon Stein, 552-9237, or the JCCenter Singles Depart- ment, 661-1000, Ext. 347. Jewish Telegraphic Agency Singles To Dance On Saturday Night Social Singles Go • Dining On Sunday The Social Singles (40-55) of the Jewish Community Cen- ter will have dinner at 6:30 p.m. Sunday at Xochimilco's Mexican restau- rant in Detroit. Carpools will meet at the Jimmy Prentis Morris Building at 6 p.m. Reservations are required. Call Fern Fine at 356-2265. The Social Singles are seek- ing Jewish men and women 21 and over for a bowling league which will begin at 5:15 p.m. Sept. 10 at Norwest (Langans) Bowling Alley. For 1990 Prizm 4 Dr. Psychiatrist Slated By Conservatives STOCK NO. 2420 $173 35* Dr. Edward Klarman, psychiatrist, will discuss deal- ing with stress in everyday life at the Singles Shabbat Sept. 8 sponsored by the Con- servative Rabbis of Metro- • politan Detroit at Congrega- tion B'nai Moshe. A Shabbat service will precede the program which will conclude with an Oneg. The program is open to Jewish singles ages 25-40. For information, call Rabbi Allan Meyerowitz, 548-9000, or Alicia Nelson, 557-0109. 1989 BERETTA STOCK NO. X2459 per mo . 'Lease pymt. based on approved credit on 48 mos. closed end. 60,000 total mileage w/100 per mile extra charge. To get total amt. multiply pymt. times 48. Subject to 4% use tax. 1st mo. in advance sec. dep. equal to 1st mo. pymt., plate cost extra. $2056p7r: /-4 OTHER VEHICLES AVAILABLE AT SIMILAR PAYMENTS Singles To Solve Mansion 'Murder' The American Cancer Soci- ty's Murder Mystery Singles Event will be at 8 p.m. Satur- day in a "Roaring 20s" set- ting at a Bloomfield Hills mansion. The evening will include solving a mystery, dancing, food and drink. There is a donation. For in- formation and reservations, call 557-5353. HOURS Mon. & Thur 'til 9 Tue., Wed., Fri. JEWISH SINGLES The Saturday Night Singles-Northside dance par- ty will be at 8 p.m. Saturday at Roma's of Bloomfield. There is a charge. For infor- mation, call 652-7878. F Sam Barnett The City of Hope has laun- ched a young professionals chapter for singles ages 2545. The group will host a social in mid-September. For infor- mation, call either Bob Levy, 350-1448; Andy Weyburn, 258-5085; or Patricia Reilly, 443-2254. Come to LO•LA, The Dating Service INVITATIONS? Hattie Schwartz M Of Course! 352-7387 11 ji E • Stationery • Place Cards • Napkins • Cake Boxes • Embossers • Bridal Gifts in o. • Hebrew Type • Calligraphy • Hostess Gifts a PERSONALIZED SECRETARIAL SERVICES .4 ENTERTAINMENT? 0 c 2 Seymour Schwartz ", LI Of Course! 356-8525 Q iu • Handwriting Analysis • Balloons • Caricatures -1 , a, • POLAROIDS • PSYCHICS • DJ's • BANDS . The Peddlers Bicycle Club (25-45) will meet outside the Jimmy Prentis Morris Jewish Community Center at 9 a.m. Sunday for a 2-to-3-hour ride with a stop to eat. For infor- mation, call Joe Waldman, 681-9243. I • MIMES • CLOWNS • MAGIC • COMICS • BIRD LADY • ANIMAL ACTS • ORGAN GRINDER! MONKEY • HAW/SQUARE/BELLY DANCERS AMERICAN CANCER SOC.IE'TY' Help us keep winning. P.O. Box 254 Lathrup Village, MI 48076 Claire Arm Millie Rosenbaum 968-2563 0 Peddlers Club To Ride Sunday IRST OREMOST INEST REE INTERVIEW Call 356-0949 Big or small, we custom the music to your needs = LEASING MANAGER AND RETAIL SALES Just East of Novi Rd., Novi Music by Professional Singles Start MARIA FELDMAN 42355 GRAND RIVER :I YOUR DATELIN 851-0909 When you're not looking, we are! • a selective , . Jewisn dating service SUMP PUMP failure OR POWER OUTAGE IS NO PROBLEM IF YOU $149.50 HAVE AN AUTOMATIC JET PUMP. INSTALLATION AVAILABLE H. B. LEWIS PLUMBING 352-9350 THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 103