CLOSE-UP The Disillusionment Having just written a highly acclaimed book about his ten years of reporting from Beirut and Jerusalem for The New York Times, the two-time Pulitzer winner discusses his coming to terms with the 'real' Israel — and offers his own Five Rules Of Mideast Reporting. ARTHUR J. MAGIDA Special to The Jewish News Friedman at age 36: Two Pulitzers, a remarkable book, and a frustration with "bandits." 22. FRIDAY, JULY 28,1989