"Now I'm always munching on cucumbers. I can't go a day without a red pepper dipped in mustard." His own tutoring session over, Howard Marcus, 20, of Southfield, joins Alyssa on the steps. He goes by Chaim here because it's easier for the Israelis to pronounce, he says. Howard was in Israel twice before, but it was never like this. His Otzma ex- perience sounds like a rewrit- ten lyric to "New York, New York." "I've gained confidence dealing with people because I had to do it in Hebrew," he says. "If I can deal with peo- ple in Israel in Hebrew, I can do it in English in the United States. "I'd like to go home and ex- plain what really goes on here," he continues. "I've been here for a year and I'm not dead. I wasn't pelted by rocks every time I went out." If anything, according to Howard, the threats to his person have come from or- dinary Israelis in ordinary places, not rioting Palesti- nians. It's taught him the Israeli sport of "elbows." "I've started pushing back," he says and recalls how he pushed an elderly man aside aside at the Tel Aviv bus sta- tion to keep from being push- ed himself. "If I hadn't push- ed him, I'd probably be laying on the pavement," Howard says, still surprised at his ac- tions. "Israelis don't under- stand the concept of, 'Please go ahead.' " Another adjustment: All six group members have learned that Judaism as practiced in the Jewish state isn't exactly the same as the Judaism of Southfield or West Bloomfield. Howard says the public transportation blackout on Shabbat is "annoying but great at the same time." Says Alyssa: "When I first got here at Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, I felt like I was more religious at home. But I'm going to miss this because this is the home of the Jewish people." "On Rosh Hashanah, we (in Detroit) go to synagogue. Israelis go to the beach," says Wendi Littky of Southfield. "They feel it's enough just to live here." In Yavneh, Wendi, 20, who is studying child development and education, volunteers at a nursery school. She ap- proaches her experience in Israel like a teacher might. In the Youth Aliyah village, "we got to work with kids who came from tough backgrounds. It was hard, but it wc‘s interesting to try to Stories from the front lines.. TWO WOMEN WHO HAVE MADE A DIFFERENCE JARC welcomes you to hear the stories of two remarkable women who have worked tirelessly "on the front lines" to improve the lives of people with disabilities When JARC president Michael Feldman first called Janet Marchese to talk with her about the JARC Humanitarian Award, she didn't have time to talk. "I have a baby in my arms and I'm on my way to the airport." She was taking the newborn with Down Syndrome to an adoptive family in Rochester, New York. Through Janet Marchese's personal network, over 1200 babies with disabilities have been adopted over the past ten years. A mother of five and part-time waitress, Marchese works from her home, quietly proving the true meaning of "Mitzvah Hero." Janet Marchese 1989 JARC Humanitarian Award recipient Ever notice the child with Down Syndrome featured in a Crest commercial? Or a young wheelchair user in McDonald's TV advertising? Emily Perl Kingsley has spent many years "talking to brick walls, knocking on locked doors and generally pulling my hair out" to impact prejudice and stereotyping of persons with disabilities in the advertising industry. Ms. Kingsley co-authored the critically acclaimed autobiographical 1987 CBS movie, "Kids Like These", starring Tyne Daly and Richard Crenna. A five-time Emmy Award winner for her work on "Sesame Street", Ms. Kingsley has been instrumental in the comfortable integration of children with disabilities on the show. She has made hundreds of lecture and media appearances including Donahue and NBC Weekend. Emily Fell Kingsley Keynote speaker, handicap-rights activist and Emmy-award winning writer with son, Jason This dynamic woman and caring mother will tell us of her personal struggle to improve public attitudes about people with disabilities. 20th Annual Meeting and Election of Officers Tuesday, June 13 7:30 p.m. Congregation Beth Abraham Hillel Moses 5075 West Maple There is no charge 4111 W • 28366 Franklin Road Southfield, Michigan 48034 352-5272 NOW . . . at your service SONNY BRASS "All that the name implies " • • • • • • • Draperies Bedspreads Blankets (cleaned or laundered) Window Shades Lampshades Pillows Venetian Blinds Where Have You Been? Don't You Know the entire Back Wall is .. . 1/2 OFF?!!! (cleaned. retaped & re-corded) estimates ! pick-up delivery Any other items you may hove — if it con be cleaned, we'll clean it and clean it properly FREE ■ Phone for "all that the name implies" 891-1818 OPERATING THE NEW AND IMPROVED SERVICE CECI ORMAN JEWELRY 14 Mile & Farmington Rd. • 855-5580 THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 39